So I’ve been speaking to this guy who I met from online dating. He is sending me very long messages. We’ve only been speaking for about a week
In his latest message I told him about a time I got a work phone call from someone but it was a strange man who didn’t make any sense when he was talking and was probably drunk or high. The guy I’m speaking to went off on a rant about how I need to be careful because there are lots of strange people out there and that I need to be careful these days. He then went on to say that on Netflix there’s loads of killer documentaries which glamourise murder to an extent and that some aspiring killers might watch it and then feel like they want to copy the documentary to get one of their own and be famous for murder. He keeps bringing up topics of murder films and documentaries and said ‘even though I feel like hurting people sometimes it’s not allowed in society’
he also told me that he’s watched a couple of episodes of another tv series about how people have to choose whether to kill another person by fighting them and hitting them over the head with an ornament. He’s also brought up the topic of rape and how he detests men who rape women. I also thought it was strange how he made a joke of how men get scammed online for money and behind the screen of the attractive female is a ‘fat middle aged man on the dark web’. He also asked me what my opinion was on couples who show PDA, and said that it was like ‘this is basically porn’
I just felt this was a strange topic to bring up. He’s studying psychology so he tends to go into quite depth about these conversation topics. But I felt this was a strange topic to bring up.
should I be concerned about this? Should I see these red flags as a sign not to pursue this relationship?
In his latest message I told him about a time I got a work phone call from someone but it was a strange man who didn’t make any sense when he was talking and was probably drunk or high. The guy I’m speaking to went off on a rant about how I need to be careful because there are lots of strange people out there and that I need to be careful these days. He then went on to say that on Netflix there’s loads of killer documentaries which glamourise murder to an extent and that some aspiring killers might watch it and then feel like they want to copy the documentary to get one of their own and be famous for murder. He keeps bringing up topics of murder films and documentaries and said ‘even though I feel like hurting people sometimes it’s not allowed in society’
he also told me that he’s watched a couple of episodes of another tv series about how people have to choose whether to kill another person by fighting them and hitting them over the head with an ornament. He’s also brought up the topic of rape and how he detests men who rape women. I also thought it was strange how he made a joke of how men get scammed online for money and behind the screen of the attractive female is a ‘fat middle aged man on the dark web’. He also asked me what my opinion was on couples who show PDA, and said that it was like ‘this is basically porn’
I just felt this was a strange topic to bring up. He’s studying psychology so he tends to go into quite depth about these conversation topics. But I felt this was a strange topic to bring up.
should I be concerned about this? Should I see these red flags as a sign not to pursue this relationship?
