Who is less desirable, an old woman in her 30's or an infertile man?

[Anonymous]

Who do you think is less desirable and would find it harder to find a relationship (a suitable partner), to find love?

- An older woman in her 30's

- An infertile man (he knows he can't ever have kids and has to tell the woman)

An older woman in her 30's

An infertile man

[Summeroflove]

Well there is some women who don’t want children or would be willing to adopt or see other options like surrogate and stuff like that.


Also 30 year old women there is other older single men as well as even younger men willing to date a woman whose older

[Anonymous]

Neither, this is just some fucking bullshit made up by an asshole who doesn't like and never understood the idea of a womans dating market value declining over time and instead of figuring out this extremely simple premise started doing shit like this.

[Anonymous]

So are men saying they would rather be infertile than be with a woman in her 30s?

That says a lot about the men on here.

[kylee2437]

Infertile man but that’s only a slight issue because doctors are usually wrong about a person being infertile.

[Asker]

The real infertile men are sad cases though. Most of them likely never asked to be infertile.

[kylee2437]

@asker there’s no way for a doctor to tell if a guy is truly infertile. They say it all the time to patients and then they end up having kids anyways.

[Asker]

I guess it depends on the case. If he has low sperm count then he can still have kids but if he has something more major then it's different.

[Twalli]

It really depends on whether or not you want kids. Neither my girlfriend nor I wanted kids, and I got a vasectomy to seal the deal.

[Anonymous]

I think an infertile man would have a bigger problem

[Asker]

yeah I know a man like that in my area. He had to seek counseling because it depressed him. He wanted a kid one day and he felt he never had a choice... that his choice was taken away from him.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, there are women that don’t want to have kids that maybe he would be a good match for

[Anonymous]

Women in their 30's are not undesirable at all, on contrary they are at peak of their beauty, elegance, intelligence.

[FunkyMonkee]

Where'd you get the idea 30 is old?

[barn_stormer]

about equal I would say

[Asker]

I find it interesting that an infertile man is the male equivalent of an older woman with her time running out. The woman took too much time but the man is a sad case; he likely never asked to be infertile.

[Asker]

The woman had many options but the infertile man never had a choice.

[Staximus]

30's is not an older woman to me haha