Weird question my boyfriend asks me?

[Anonymous]

What can I do so you can keep being my girlfriend? I think he's insecure since we have a pretty big age gap 11 years. U often respond that he's doing pretty good now but I don't think he trusts me and I don't give him a reason too. Two of my childhood friends are guys and we run a plant nursery together yeah I dated one of them but after we kissed it felt so wrong we decided to stay friends. The three of us hang out a lot and I think my boyfriend feels threatened about that. I always tell him when and where we're hanging out and most of the times it's at the beach or at the plant nursery but he blows up and says I should stick with that friend and forget about him but then he comes back crying and apologizing and I give in only to repeat the cycle I think it's best we end things for the both of us.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. If you genuinely love him try to reassure him of that. But if he takes it to a extreme then I don’t know.


If you’re not cheating or planning to cheat. Then you’re not doing anything wrong with that.

[Guy13]

Very sad situations. It sounds like you have lost or almost lost respect for this guy. Before you can't look at him straight... like even be friend... Maybe back away for 90 days?

[FunkyMonkee]

Sounds like he's worried about losing you and just wants to know what he can do to see to it he doesn't. No, you can say, "wash the dishes, sweep the porch, vacuum the carpet, wash the car, polish the dog, shampoo the coffee table, kiss my mother, take us shopping, buy me all kinds of insanely expensive things, buy me a new house, etc..

[Bklynbadboy12]

I think he's just being corrective trying to find out what he can do to keep you happy why is that a bad thing