How do cheaters get into relationships so easily than those who are loyal?

[Anonymous]

I feel like people don’t want loyalty anymore. If someone cheated on their previous partner, they’ll get taken right away. It’s like they get more respect than those who stayed loyal throughout the relationship. It doesn’t make sense.

[caring__1]

Some people choose to be true to themselves, while others choose to portray an image for selfish gains. If their focus is on attracting others, that's a big red flag. These patterns are obvious, so it's not hard to avoid them. Caring people don't actively draw attention to themselves, so they aren't as readily noticed. The question isn't about those who choose to use others; it's about your choice to be drawn to the superficial rather than seek out those who have depth and are into more than just themselves. The serial cheaters you talk about have fine-tuned the bait they use to manipulate others. They have spent more time and energy developing their superficiality than developing any meaningful depth. Don't continue looking at dogs, when you actually want to adopt a cat. Also, don't waste your time focusing of those who are fishing for victims. If they stopped getting attention for their choices, they'd probably stop making those choices.

[Summeroflove]

There is a lot of people like this. Not everyone.


There is many people who don’t search for love. They search for sex. They search for money. They search for everything else. But love…. Then wonder why they’re miserable.

[Revvl6pro]

They have game. I tried to teach a guy on here how to get women, but like most guys, he was afraid of his own shadow. It wasn't about cheating, but it's the same concept.

[Nikki1989]

I know someone like that. She has cheated on every guy she has ever been with, but she still has guys lined up dying to date her.

[AmeerX]

"If someone cheated on their previous partner, they’ll get taken right away. It’s like they get more respect than those who stayed loyal throughout the relationship. It doesn’t make sense."

This is so true. If you are virgin even then you get ridiculous remarks

[LiamJHayden]

Cheaters do not care, so will lie and tell the target whatever he/she wants to hear in order to use the person. Loyal people do care and will not resort to such tactics.

[driven159]

In a perfect world you would find your first love and spend the rest of your life with them butt the world is far from perfect butt would be nice if it always worked out that way

[BJP21]

Cheaters are smooth talkers until they get caught.

[Anonymous]

Why is your pfp anonymous but then I click on your profile and could see your picture?

[Asker]

I’ve noticed that too. I don’t know why it’s like that.

[FatDikEng]

Cuz cheater are hot

[Asker]

How do you expect a healthy relationship?

[FatDikEng]

Well sex is healthy. 😉