What would you do if your partners pic in a special dress and they don’t send it?

[Anonymous]

Its your long term partner in serious relationship. He/She wore a special dress while not with you and you asked to send a pic. They sent you a not so clear pic. You’re sure that they have more pics with them and you asked 3,4 times to send those. They just say “ok” everytime and never send you the pics

what would you do? how would you react?

[Guy13]

It sounds like that person is up to not good. they would either show me all the pics and provide me a reasonable explanation or I would assume the worse and start investigating.

[Asker]

Yeah she said she looks bad in all other pics

[Guy13]

Nope... I'm sorry to hear this because this an obvious Stink...

[iNeedAdvicePlss]

I feel like they might be trying to avoid doing it, maybe they just don't feel comfortable and are scared to say no. I think don't get mad, that will only reinforce them being scared, and will promote this sort of behavior for other things more often. Just be understanding, allow the option to say no by explicitly saying that it's their, remember consent should always be asked for, with anything, big, small, sexual, or not sexual. It's important so that both/all people involved feel safe and comfortable to express their wants, needs, and opinions

[Asker]

Yeah got it buddy. Thanks