
Would you get annoyed if your partner didn't want to take a lot of couples pics?


😂 I think it's okay, I respect your wish. But personally I'd like to have quite a few nice couple pictures. One day they will testify I had some life. Imagine once you old and miss the youth. Or smth. Also, I don't have social media now but when I get married, I will totally open some. There are people who hurt me in the past. They must nicely die from envy at my new life. Lovely feeling of a win for me. And I'm totally gonna put effort that everything looks unachievably pretentious and over the top high for them :p.
Other than ruining my enemies with envy as they were ruining me with bad and unethical behaviour - I don't need social media. 😒 It's rather my traumas haunting me I guess.
But why do you need pics for proof that you had a life lol. You think people wint believe you?
It wouldn't bother me at all. I'm like you and would sooner take pics of scenery or other people. I would have to look long & hard to find a picture of me & my past partner. By the way we parted ways on friendly terms. I have pics of him but not of the 2 of us together.
I hardly ever end on friendly terms. I try but they suggest we stay. Then they continue to do the same bullshit until i finally lose my shit
I don't always agree with you but I definitely agree with you here. I can't stand couples that have to post pictures of themselves every two seconds. It's not out of jealousy either because I'm happily married. I just think it's overkill, annoying, obsessive, and narcissistic behavior. I think the same in regards to selfies in general. For example, those awful people (mostly girls) that post the same poses every single day, wearing the same skimpy clothing, with the same backdrops.
Well im glad we agree for once lol
I am not a very social media kind of guy luv so I don't like having my pictures taken specially for posting purposes.
As for the phone gallery once in a while is enough I guess, cause if you have the real thing why do you want photos.
Exaaaactly thats what i dont get. Its likendudes asking for a nude when they can just go over to the girls place instead
Lol i didn't mean to. I like when youāre goody goody ;-)
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I hate publicity so I would not take pics together unless I was married or engaged.
I feel u on that
No, I do try and get nice pictures of me and my boyfriend together but he's very shy and prefers to live in the moment. a lot of photos people take now a days seem so fake and posed just for social media and it's kinda sad. I miss the days when we had disposable camera. We couldn't edit a photo or delete it. I wasn't posed it was actually like getting moment in time in on picture and I like them kinds of photos best.
I don't take many pics myself. I would kind of appreciate it if my partner liked to do it, so that we'd have something. But it could easily go overboard and that would be annoying. There can definitely be too much.
However, I don't think I would ever bother me if they never wanted to take pics.
So, there's no minimum, but there is a maximum.
I once dated a girl that didnāt mind photos of us but then the next day she broke up with me because she said ā I took too many ā I only took 2 photos and thatās it and I even showed her and she said ā that is too many ā. Seriously WTF
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don't thinks he broke up because of too many pics...
Yes because taking pictures help for keep sakes. In a serious relationship I need that.
If her and I have a casual relationship and just sex then I wouldnāt feel bothered if she didnāt want pics at all because I donāt want to remember her anything more.
Shit we buy souvenirs for keepsakes. I dont need a pic cause if we break up its getting burned up š¤£
Souvenirs donāt necessarily have the keepsakes of a relationship like how pictures do. I find it just as easy to delete a picture than to destroy or give away a souvenir LoL
To each their own.
I would get annoyed if they constantly wanted pics. I hate taking pictures. And I get annoyed with couples that post a billion pics of them. Like one here and there is cool. I do like to document the places I go but 1-2 pics is fine. Everything else will be pictures of the place.
If i take a pic, it better become his profile pic. Shit all that hard work i did to pose right lmao
im cool with that im not really into that myself on a deep level a relationship is called a relationship for a reason it's a very basic and simple concept that alotta folks today are too presumptuos and neurotic to understand so as long as i dont feel like my woman has a presumptious attitude whenever i deal with the women i deal with then i can deal with em but because of how most modern women are primarily under 30 and some even 30 and older ya won't catch me hangin with women unless our relationship is sexual or potentially that way because currently ya can't insure most women's cooperation unless they view ya sexually because that's when most of em conviently get cooperative with ya not to shit on women but outside of sexual situations i really got no tolerance for women i hate dealin with anyone to where ya can see goin into it they're presumptuos and it's a my way or no way type deal i hate that shit
No I not very big on taking pics anyway especially if it's on a phone. If you want to take a picture use a actual camera. I hate people who take a million selfies and post it online.
Yes iād like an actual camera
Hell no we would get along fine I hate pictures especially when whoever is taking it tries to make you smile I donāt know how to fake smile I look like a weirdo when I try and smile for a picture so if someoneās trying to take my picture I stick my finger up my nose so theyāll get mad and delete it and wonāt bother trying anymore
Im very good at faking a smile haha
I'm like that too. I mean don't get me wrong ill take a shit load of selfie and send them to him, so he has a ton of me and vice versa, but just taking pictures of everything and us doing shit is just so blah...
I'd rather live in the moment then have my face in a picture
Exactly
I don't know, my girlfriend love taking pictures oh and with Mme as well as her mom too.
Some occasions making video too, I personally happy she keep records our history, also she never shy to taking any kind of pictures publicly and privately.
I don't mind if she post on social media.
I would rather do a video but yea i dont need records of history
I'm not to sure how annoyed I would get !! Depending on the way u are , people are visual and sometimes forget different things or places or jokes that was once before cuz well ur living in the now... but wen u see old pics , ur like oh yeah we did... or we went too... or we were with... so try and take more pics babygirl , they are memories...
Nah i got a memory for a reason. Ion need all that extra stuff
I won't
Yes! Especially if his photo album had more car pictures than anything else... No joke, all his car
Lmao i have more car photos then my exes š¤£
Yes, because then we won't have a lot of photos together. I don't need them for social media just the memories. What if I die tomorrow or go missing? I also take pictures of myself every day so it would make look self centered in comparison to the couples photos.
Live like there's no tomorrow. When you die you can't see the pics anywyays
Na I don't care. I don't have social media so I don't take many pics anyway but if it is for us both I'd like my girlfriend to take pics together.
Honestly it would depend on how many, I personally would like to have a few every so often as reminders of happy times. I wouldn't want a lot as I've always hated how I look in general and everyone I've known has always made it clear on what level of say amdttractigenmeness.
Was that last word supposed to be attractiveness?
Yes, sorry I'm very tired and touch screens don't work well with my hands. They don't do what I want. It was supposed to be sorry that I didn't notice.
Lol its all good :)
Thank you, so yeah just don't want lots of photos to remind me how bad o look
Iād get annoyed if they did want to take pics all the time. It would drive me crazy if someone wanted to take couple shots just to post on social media all the time. It would put me off my partner to be honest.
Yes i hate that crap
I donāt like to take pics personally and Iām okay with that. I prefer to enjoy life without my phone always being in the middle of everything. My lady likes to take pics all the time and itās fine but I prefer to just focus on the moment
Yea some people are just too into it
Yeah I never been that person. I usually put my phone in her purse or give it to her because she likes the camera on my phone š¤£
Iād love it if my partner didnāt want to take couples pics.!
yeah I donāt need pics, selfies to justify our relationship.
Luckily my girlfriend is pretty good about this but she does take more pics than I do!
Haha
Iād understand if he didnāt want to take them on a normal day. But vacation or holidays, I love to take pictures with friends and family. That would include my significant other.
I see
not necessarily. I honestly donāt use social media much anyways and so if I ended up having a boyfriend he wouldnāt be posted on there cause of my lack of usage. I would like some photos just have saved to camera roll but it doesnāt have to be excessive. I also donāt need feel the need to be posted on Instagram. If he wants, great, if not idc. I donāt need the whole world to see my relationship lolāŗļø😎
I know thats right
Very I have maybe a handful of photos from our 10 years. And I have more than that of his dic pics that he sent willingly!
That is a big mistake and one I'll never do again.
Major red flag!
Lmao i understand
Hahaha I'm not a big photo taker either. I guess I would be okay and just discuss how to deal with it. I'm also more into landscape or building pics than selfies 😀
Yep i agree
Brooooooooooo ! My fiance never takes pics w me or however or for whatever purpose... its does bother me when i try but i try less cuz ik she won't n im used to not tryn anymore mostly but yk sometimes i just want to n it just won't happen
Lmao have u af least asked
As long as I got a few I wouldn't mind. I'm not one for tons of social posts anyway but I want to keep mementos of my life. But if they refuse to be in any photos with me AT ALL then I will be upset.
Iād do maybe one a year lmao
I'd get annoyed if my partner did want to take a bunch of couple pics
Ikrr
An occasional couples picture on vacation is okay with my SO and me. We generally take more pictures of the scenery than ourselves. Selfies are not something my SO and I are usually interested in.
Yea i rather take pics of the scenery but a video of us
I'm not sure how annoyed I'd be. I don't think it would really bother me that much but if he didn't want to take any pics at all with me then I would most certainly be annoyed by that.
I understand
I wouldnāt want a lot anyway, but I would want some. So if they wanted a few for special occasions, sure. For every time we go out to eat, nope 😂
Loll
Hell no I wouldn't be annoyed I don't mind taking a couple picture from time to time but I think but not every fucking day
I hear ya
I dont care to take em at all. I dont need pics to remember stuff. But iād be okay taking a short video if we traveled somewhere
Yeah every now and then to take a picture somewhere you've never been or pictures of the area that you're in or videos just to remember it that you guys were there or maybe it's just a landmark that looks freaking awesome and you want to have that completely understandable but to take couple pictures against all sorts of different things everywhere you go and if she's into posting that stuff all over Facebook or something like that hell no
Me and my man typically do not have a lot of pics together. I wish we would take more lol but I give my man subliminal signs
Lol like what
He made a stupid meme cartoon of us and I put it as my background on my phone for him to see. He saw it and I was like āwell if we only had more pics together, I wouldnāt need this as my backgroundā so now we have a few more pics together but I still would love more lol I also always take stupid silly pics of him
Awww smart haha
No, I wouldn't be mad. If she feels uncomfortable or feels nervous taking pics, then I'll only wait for moments she feels like it's good time for it.
Sounds good
I wouldn't be annoyed but it'd make me kind of sad I'm not huge on having my photo taken either but I wouldn't mind it for my partner and I'd want some pics of us together.
I rather do a video
In saying if weāre hiking for example, its easier to do a quick Hey on video then pose for a pic. Ion got time for all thst
Lmao why that meme
not at all... in the last two years I have only take six pics in total... of my cat and her kittens, lol
I don't know if i even had that many
One couple photo per vacation is sufficient; I don't need photos of us together while stopping in every village or town during our trip.
I rather just video it. Its quicker
If he doesnāt want to take a lot then thatās fine, but if heās against taking any then I see it as a red flag.
Maybe
It happened with me before. I was dating a guy and it when came to taking pics he was against it and I found out later it was because he lost interest. So it has a negative connotation for me. I think most guys are willing to compromise taking at least one pic with their significant other.
Not really tbh, I mean taking couples pics every now and then is nice but not like all the time. So it wouldn't bother me to say the least
Okayy
I don't like my picture taken too much. I have been upset when I'd book family portraits and he'd whine louder than our kids. 😠
Lmao iād whine too š¤£
I'd love to click couple pictures with my partner. I don't think there's a reason to get annoyed by that.
Not really. I'm not a huge picture guy so it wouldn't bother me. But I do like taking a cute photo of us every once in awhile
I hear ya
I would not get annoyed. I don't like to take a lot of couple pics and hardly any selfies.
I myself am not a big fan of a lot of pics, I can take few but not a lot I prefer living the moment than taking pictures
I would not be happy to why she avoids our couple pics. Unless when she is hiding something or has a better reason for it.
I'm not a big fan of taking a lot of pictures but also i don't mind it and i will smile in every one , it's happened to me every time i go out with my friends they love taking pictures to them self or to all of us as a group
Iāll fake smile
Not it would be the other way round for me I don´t make many photos especially not of myself.
I feel ya
I don't even remember the last time I took a selfie😂😂
My what'sapp profile is a pic from 2017
Haha
Not at all... my girlfriend right now is a fitness person... and we have no pics on social media ( which pissed me off). She has to act single even if she is not... you have to have trust in them
Lmao you act single on here
Yea I've checked you several times this year for acting single which is why i said i dont DM
I'm not big on taking photos either. I just like to take in the moment and not be distracted by taking photos.
Exactly
No, I would consider her to be a secure independent woman. It's only the insecure women that constantly needs to validate herself and relationships to others on Facebook and instagram.
I can't even base it off gender. A lot of people in general post everything looking for attention
True, I see some guys try to do it too. However, Validation and attention can be different things. Everyone to a certain degree is looking for some attention, That is to be human.
Validation is about credibility.
People that feel their life has no credibility need constant validation from others. Most frequently girls do it with relationships.
The problem is that Girls bury themselves in fiction.
Many read fictional novels constantly.
They watch fictional television shows and movies constantly.
Women wear make up.
Women get plastic surgery by far more than men.
They watch fake news
It's a fake, fake, fake, fake, fake world on the women's side of the fence.
They are very insecure selfish girls that get into relationships for materialist reasons only
But they need to convince others that they are people that actually care about someone else besides just themselves. Since Being that selfish of a person makes every relationship they have a fake one.
You don't care about someone else when all you care about is yourself.
So they put on a big show for others to watch, Just like the television.
But, all shows on the tv are fiction and now all the relationship shows on Facebook are too.
So don't be fooled, the selfie culture doesn't care about someone else. It is all about ones self.
Our pictures normally just have the wife in them if they are not of just the scenery. Every once in a while we'll do a selfie or someone would volunteer to take our picture together with our camera.
Thats sweet
No but I would get very annoyed if my partner wanted to take a bunch of pictures all the time.
Ikrr
I got self-esteem issues so hard for me to take pictures but I would do it if I had a girl
Thats sweet
@DizzyDesii Awww thank you
I like a few photo's now and again but a constant thread of selfies isn't going to happen.
Yea its not
No, I don't want to take a lot of pictures myself in general
Yea i used to love taking lots of selfies but ion really like having others take pics
No we would be doing stuff in real life. That's what counts. Not preserving memories through a camera.
I agree
No. I wouldn't be annoyed either way. If she wants a few pics, great. If she wants a lot of pics, great.
Okay
oh lol I take them without my girl even noticing. I keep taking them of us until she notices. So I catch her noticing my paparazzo bullshit and it's funny everytime!
Haha iād hate that
Nah iād be like ugh i hate how i look here
lol my girl does that too. She says I take horrible pics. And I say "I'm not trying to take pics, I'm trying to capture moments as they are."
And now that she and I are both home for the holidays for a month, she told me she "can't stop watching the pics and videos I took."
We both miss each otherrrrrr
I don't mind spontaneous pics once in a while but I hate photoshoots.
Iāll do a photoshoot before i do a spontaneous pic. At least i know i came prepared haah
i don't know, to be honest I don't take many pictures anyway
I feel you
It would be kinda sad if my girlfriend didnāt want a lot of couples pictures.
I see
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