Would you want your partner to include a picture of you two on his phone screen?

[Anonymous]

We have been together for almost a year now and there were times where I've put a pictures of us as my phone screen and he didn't. I also am nowhere to be seen on his socials and he's super awkward so there's usually barely any pda. I want to be shown off and I feel like he's not doing that in the slightest. I don't know what to do. I know that posting/not posting together means nothing to other people, but it means something to me. And I wish it could just come natural to him. But it doesn't.

[California_Poppy]

I know this is probably not helpful to you, but I don't think this is worth pushing. If it's not natural to him, and he does it anyway because you push it, what will be the point? It won't be genuine, and he might even resent you for it.
I would hope that there are other ways that he is showing his love and affection to you that you can find comfort in?
And if there is another reason why this bothers you, like you feel that he is trying to make himself available to other women, maybe you guys can have a conversation about that?

[gothbxtch]

yeah! my phone lockscreen is a picture of pete wentz’s crotch, though 😭 so as long as my hypothetical boyfriend was okay with that, then i would think it was sweet.

[gothbxtch]

thank you!

[boggboss]

So u want your partner to act in a way that's not normal to himself and u won't verbalise your issue?

[jahaims]

The picture on there is for her not me. So it would be her preference

[Anonymous]

When i was in a relationship my partner did that without me telling him. I felt extremely happy for it. But I wouldn’t push him do it myself.