Ah man, I hear ya. It's never easy finding out details about a partner's past relationships. But you gotta remember, that stuff happened before you were in the picture. They chose you now!
It seems like this is more affecting your self-esteem than actually being mad at them. Comparing yourself to exes is never good. Try focusing on all the ways your partner shows YOU their feelings, not what they did with others way back when.
Communication helps too. Tell them it's still on your mind sometimes in a calm way. Reassurance from them may help, like why they're with you now. Do stuff together just the two of you to build new memories separate from the past.
Jealousy will only damage things if you let it. Trust that they want to be with YOU. And try not dwelling on things you can't change. Easier said than done, I know, but every day will get easier. Stay positive - you've got this!
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Not much else to do that to learn to accept she has a past, or break up.
It's not like you can erase her past with a magic eraser or wind back time.
I'd end the relationship. It's apparently too much for you. You aren't compatible
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just dump. its obvious you're too immature about it
You need to forget about relationships till you grow up some. You are obviously not ready.
Live and learn. Don't ask next time
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