Would you be upset if your partner never uploaded pictures of you on their social media?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Finchie40]

Never uploaded pictures of you sadly can be a red flag , especially if they spend a lot of time on social media. But if they barely ever go on social media , then that can be understandable but still somewhat shady because to never post a picture of your partner, is basically indicating that you are still available and that you want other people to think you are still available. So it’s up to you on whether you want to continue being with them , or walk the other way? Talking to them about it is a waste of time , because They will not tell you the truth. A friend of mine just experienced this with his lying cheating wife , that never posted pictures of the 2 of them together or any pictures of him in any of her social media accounts, when she use to before. He told me he was going to surprise his wife and kids to a trip to Disney. So when they went , I noticed she didn’t post any pics of him on her social media which I thought was odd, considering he planned and paid for the trip. When I saw him again after his trip he had a look of sadness on his face and I asked him what’s wrong , and he told me he found out his wife was cheating on him. I told him I suspected something odd when she wasn’t posting pictures of him on her social media , so if a partner doesn't post pictures of their partner , that’s could be a sign that they are up to no good

[ohsheeT]

Yeah that is kind of strange. Sometimes I just don't believe you have a beautiful girlfriend and it's like they hide Her. They don't want her to be seen or they don't want her to be seen. Or they don't want anybody to know that he's with her. Or she's with him. There's 5 billion single people. Find the person that fits me the best LO. L

[Anonymous]

In a general sense, no, but I think context matters too. Me and my partner don’t upload pics of each other but that’s because we aren’t active on social media like that. It would be a bit odd if he were like chronically online, posting pics of his fam, friends, hobbies, everything but being in a relationship, yeah kinda red flaggy.

[DishLady]

First, I like my privacy so I have no problem being off screen. However I’d also expect that in general he not post much at all on his social media. There are so many endless ways to save and enjoy pics in private that there’s no need to post anything nicely anymore.

[AI Opinion]

As your friendly relationship coach here, I'd say there's no one-size-fits-all answer, darling! It depends on what social media means to both of you. Some folks love showing off their significant other, while others simply savor privacy like a hidden gem. If it's bugging you, have a heart-to-heart without jumping straight to ghosting or assuming it's a red flag. Communication's the golden ticket to avoid misunderstandings! 😘

[Simslover92]

No my ex did and I didn't want him to do that because when we broke up he had to take them down. It was quite embarrassing.

[Danny_dan92]

I would only be bothered by it if she’s still posting provocative pictures up.




I’m sure all men will agree with me on this, we know WHY women post provocative pictures on the internet.




They do it to then see what men find them attractive and also to feel good about themselves through validation.


That being said, single women can do it and it makes sense. And most people won’t take issue with it, but obviously it will be a problem if she’s taken and is doing it.

[Levin]

Opposite.

Social media is a load of shite.

And I value my privacy.

So please don't upload me on the internet in general. I don't want it.

'tis a load of showing off and egotistical wankshafts anyway.

Plus there's too many jealous fruitloops.

[SeekerOfTruth007]

I don't want my photos on the internet anymore. It turns out, frauds can use your photos to steal your identity and even empty your bank account.

I want real id required to use the internet and a requirement to use your real name to use the internet, so FRAUD would become impossible.

[Anonymous]

If they didn’t use social media at all or showcase their real profile then there would be no reason needed to showcase our photos online. I wouldn’t be upset.

If we weren’t dating long and not sure if it would work out then why would we post our photos online? I wouldn’t be upset.

Lastly, it depends on the situation. If it was mentioned in a shady way then I would ask myself if they don’t want to be seen with a boyfriend for a reason.

[bobalife]

Previously, yes. Nowadays, I’m more open to keeping privacy lol. But I also don’t mind if my man is showing me off and being proud of who he has in his life :)

[mysteriousNicholas]

@bobalife because the 30s just aren't the 20s no more? You wrote nowadays.

[bobalife]

Yes, you got it lol.

[mysteriousNicholas]

@bobalife the 20s - do you miss them yet?

[bobalife]

Great question, this should be a post ask question lol. Yes and no, it’s nice to reminisce good memories, old friends, or the things I could do in my 20s. But I appreciate where I am in life, the lessons from my 20s, and how far I’ve grown :) wbu?

[mysteriousNicholas]

@bobalife the only downside though is the physical aka the aging - the downside of the aging lol 😆😅 true true. Have a good day

[OneViewpoint]

No I would be upset if they did. Because I would have had that conversation early on. And I would have been very very clear.

[Anonymous]

Honestly no im a very private person on my social media as an adult and so is he we share small things and memes more then actual pics of us we live in the moment and honestly forget to take pics a lot of the time lol

[Unycorn]

I dont want a photo on social media if I am not asked

[Dargil]

I have never checked. I was told an ex girlfriend posted one (amicable split) in a memories post.

[anon1903]

Depends. Are they very active on social media platforms?

Then that's a red flag.

Otherwise meh.

[WindAtMyBack]

I'd be upset if they DID upload pictures of me.

[DonaldDarko]

No she would be doing that for my protection and for hers.

[red-lipstick-girl]

If there is no valid reason, this rudeness is either ashamed of me or has another girlfriend.

[dustybiker2]

Neither of us have social media accounts. Nor do friends. Generation of privacy.

[Speaking_Frankly]

On public social media, I would be insistent on them not posting me.

[contentious]

I'd be upset if my pictures were uploaded on social media.

[TiffanySpooky]

Nah, I would at least like their bio to say IN A RELATIONSHIP at least. I don’t care if it doesn’t say with me or photos. I like privacy

[MemeSupreme]

no unless if he posted a lot then i'd wanna know why

[mysteriousNicholas]

😆 it would make me think she's getting some on the side 😔😏

[Nikki1989]

We don't use social media, so it is not going to happen regardless.

[Twalli]

My girlfriend doesn't have social media. I would be more worried if a girl uploaded pictures of me on social media thinking we were in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

I barely use any social media. I only use Snapchat, because my friends from high school still do. So no.

[randomlala]

hell yea id be upset i want everyone to know he's mine and im his, my boyfriend doesn't post and neither do i but if we did then we'd defintely post each other / about eachother regularly

[Iron_Man]

if she had her friends and family up and not me up, I would be upset

[jahaims]

No, I would be upset if my partner was a big enough of a loser to care about social media

[Anonymous]

no, but im super private. i hate having my picture taken. and i dont even upload images of my self on my own social media.

[Anonymous]

It depends. Did I give them photos expressly to upload? My girlfriend is not a big social media person.

[blackeagle007]

Stopped Facebook long time ago, prefer my next companion doesn’t have that as well.

[msc545]

No, I would actually prefer she didn't, but either way w3hat difference does it really make?

[noohair]

I do not want my private life on Social Media...

[robocop666]

This is how you know a woman is cheating on her man. Ffew pictures of her man and their in the distance.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Nope not at all I wouldn't want to be on her social media

[Purpleronnie]

Nope … couldn’t care less

[Kaneki05]

No that sounds great

[Phoenix98]

Probably not mad but I would be concerned.

[DrPepper12]

No. Lol. Not my feed. Who cares?

[genericname85]

no. cause social media don't matter.

[TonyMetal___86]

Nope but i'll ask her why?

[Jeff51]

Nope. Don't care

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Actually prefer it that way.

[queenofcardio]

No.. I don't care for social media

[whereismyjohnny]

Nope.

[elizamichale1]

Not really

[Massageman]

Heaven's no.

[Alex-Snow]

Not really

[beefcakebradybatson]

Probably.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't.

[Goran90]

No I will not