Is it good to go cold and mean after rejection?

[Anonymous]

There is a girl who rejected me. She liked me but then dont know what i did wrong but she ended things (we kissed two times, went out). She is now dating my friend

[Guy13]

I know there is not much more devastating that a woman who you thought was friendly towards you move on to your best friend. A woman like this you do not want anyway. She knew what she was doing and she is enjoying playing you two against one another.

If I were you, I would go out and make relationship with another woman from somewhere. Focus on someone that is decent because the girl you are pining over is not. She will do the same thing to your friend as she did to you. Go find a higher quality woman !!

[DaveJord]

Sure, you have right to feel the way you feel... no body can take that right away from you. Women make no excuse for the shit they do how they feel when they do it.

[robbo]

She probably had her reasons. Not trying to talk down on you. Not everyone’s compatible, or some people got theses ideas of things they think they need in a partner (even if they aren’t compatible. Often due to trauma and brainwashing) anyways. No you hoesntly really don’t owe her anything, especially if she’s with someone else. If anything it is just better to focus on yourself to move past this.

[coachTanthony]

You weren't in the end her cup of tea and that is fine. We can't expect everyone to be our cup of tea because deep down that is arrogant. All you can do is move forward and find someone who is and rejection is part of that journey.

[AdithyaR]

Well that depends, there's a difference between being indifferent and cold and being intentionally mean.
Doing the second is bad and portrays you in a poor light.
First would be fine since it's just you keeping boundaries.

[Anonymous]

Do not get mean towards her, its not worth the effort, be polite but reserved if you meet them when you are out, if you were following her on any social media cut those links,

Do not be surprised if she starts trying to message/text when you withdraw from her, she'll be trying to keep you close just in case the relationship with your 'friend' doesn't work out.

[Vikkrram]

Ok but suddenly she rejected you one day and she started dating ur friend. I don't think this had happened there might be some fights, some misunderstandings between you both

[RolandCuthbert]

Dude, it is best to go on and find another girl.

Then wink at your old flame, when you find something new.

[LiamJHayden]

No. Just move on. Too many decent girls out there to waste time on one who is not interested.

[Anonymous]

It's fine to go cold, but why be mean. Don't waste even that energy on her. She's already wasted enough of yours already.

[Anonymous]

I don''t see the point in doing that, but I understand why it can happen.

[In_Trance]

Pointless