there's like a 50% chance it happens anyway
I would rather know about it so i can tell her to find a friend i can fuck in front of her
These are just open sexual relationships. They happen for many reasons. All open relationships have complexity and will often fail, even when they look successful.
First off, you have to consider who wants to add sexual partners. If the man, he just wants to explore his options or wants to exploit his options while in a relationship. Men biologically want to spread their sperm around. If the woman wants to add partners, the she is likely wanting to maintain her orbiters, which many women don't admit keeping and maintianing--But women have a biological urge to keep backups Incase she needs help and protection. And that can extend to sexual frustration and resentment. If she loses respect for you, in this day in age, she is often window shopping. By being able to ask and exist with other partners openly, she can freely vet new partners while keeping her existing security.
Now consider that many men suffer lower T than their ancestors. More men are becoming less manly. Some blame all the sugary foods, the microscopic plastic particles, and pollution. And it effects all male species in the planet, especially the frogs. Remeber how you hardly knew gay men from the 1970's and before. Yes, they have always been there and hidden, but every new generation is more gay than the last. This is taking its toll on sexual relations.
It has also created a population of insecure and non-manly men. But the result is that every new generation has boys who grow up in single mother only homes, without the father influence. So these guys are not bad guys, but just have so little masculine ability. So much so, when a tough masculine guy shows up, he is often labelled toxic because he can seem like such a jerk. In the old days, men would keep other men at bay. Now you have the mean ones left uncheck.
So going back to sexual relationships, women are coming up short, and modern women are telling women it's okay to go outside the marriage. If just for release. Which oddly more women are now cheating way more than men, but many do not call it cheating because deep down, they are just looking for a better man. And hence why poly and open relationships are being normalized now.
And again, there has always been a group of, " Swingers" who would go to a location and drink, and play with others. traditionally this has been with older couples who wanted some release after spending 20, 30 or even 50 years with each other with little to no sexual contact with others. Some get bored, and want to feel young, sexual and crazy like they did when they were young, and even for that group traditionally, it was a way to ultimately begin to end the primary relationship.
And as with all sexual things, with enough time and fantasy, people can develop a fetish for sharing, and being a cuckhold. Many cuck men are playing with a BDSM version of humiliation. For these guys, they might be in such a structured life, that having out of control sex, or hot wife, might be exciting. The BDSM crowd has always known that men of power, tend to enjoy being sex slaves at times to not have to be in control, or feel like they need to be in their power. To let go, and be for a moment, the weaker person.
Some cultures push cuck ways, like the Alaskan Native Americans who believe in sharing their wives with others visit while sleeping at night to stay warm.
Going back to a monogamous marriage, if partners are not happy, they have little spirit or stress to keep it monogamous especially given that most Western Culture are hypersexualized.
Now to the beta thing, which is a grading system women use to grade men back in the days women were shopping for a good productive husband at University, yes, any guy who lets his wife leave his bed for another is lacking. He might encourage it so he can freely cheat, but just the fact that he feels like he needs to keep a woman around, and not move on to a better screams that he does not have options he is not sure about, or scared to endure a divorce to get.
Just before Thanksgiving, I was made aware of a marriage on the rocks. His wife had basically asked about poly. 100% out of the blue. What I understand happened was at first the man stopped communicating with her and just slept in another room. Then finally moved out. His wife has since backtracked and has tried to get him to return home. It's a bit frustrating because my information is a bit 2nd handed. What I heard was he gave her an impossible ultimatum. Prove to me you have not cheated already. You have 72 hours! Because you can't prove a negative she was unable to do so. This husband filed for Divorce last week. I refuse to get sucked up into that Alpha Beta discussion. My thoughts are basically directed at both males and females. Grow the hell up and act like a frickin adult. If you can't then do your spouse a favor and give them an easy Divorce. If you are married to a lowlife POS be they male or female DO NOT put up with that horseshit! You might take a hit during the Divorce, but in the end, you will be MUCH better off. One thing that does bother me is people that are so beaten down they just let their partner bully them.
According to surveys, the rate of women cheating is far less than 50%.
Cheaters cheat whether or not you "let" them. If you are not okay with your partner cheating and you are aware of their unfaithful behavior, but still don't make them face any consequences so they feel like they can continue to cheat on you, that is a sign of poor boundaries on your part and that needs fixing regardless of your gender or sexual orientation.
If you are okay with your partner dating or sleeping with other people, basically you are okay with opening the relationship maybe just on your partner's side or both of your sides, and you agree to have such a relationship then that's no longer cheating. If you find hotwifery or cuckoldry hot... well it's your life your kinks what can anyone say lol. But I have known men who are okay with that and still have a very "alpha" attitude and mindset because they know what they want and are assertive. So certainly it doesn't make you a "beta" by itself.
A 50% chance anyway? Where do you get your facts?
If your going by your own experience, I guess you need to choose better partners…. or be a better partner so they don’t ‘need’ to cheat and leave you….
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Beta is a slang insult for or describing a man who is seen as passive, subservient, weak, and effeminate.
Really depends on how you feel about yourself, I mean if you think you have to let her cheat to keep her... well it sounds beta to me. But there's all types of swingers out there and they do it all the time and I assume they happy and beta has nothing to do with it.
It's beta if you choose to stay. If this turns you on and it's consensual though then that's a different story.
Handle your relationship properly and you will have her respect and not these problems
Some people just like spice. Variety
You're just a cuck dude. I think you dudes have a semi-gay fetish where you just like knowing your dick is where another dick has been. You take advantage of dudes that are just so hard up for pussy that they don't mind fucking your girl's pussy... and don't mind that for some strange reason that you just want to watch. Works for you (the cuck), the bull, and the cum dumpster I guess.
I'm sure you'll say "don't knock it until you've tried it." Good for you dude. I jerk off to lesbian porn so... not so into that seeing another dude's dick stuff. I prefer two chicks and me.
This whole alpha beta rating thing some have going on screams insecurity like nothing else.
If you don't want her to sleep with others let it be known, if she still does you should re-evaluate the relationship. If you feel it's something you can "live with" I don't think it will end anywhere good.
i'm so sorry... i think this is the problem when you are so in love and so faithful then married to someone yoy canot trusy. imagine investinh so much in the relationship only to break your heart.
be the bigger person. do things the right way. if yoy must divorce then divorce. do not waste your life on someone who doesn't value you.
There isn’t automatically a 50% chance she’ll cheat. It’s not random. If she has morals, the relationship is good, she’s sexually attracted to you and the sex is good, she won’t cheat because she’ll have no reason to.
When a woman cheats it’s usually down to a lack of sexual attraction to her boyfriend/husband (because he’s “beta” already) or sexual frustration because he’s bad in bed.
So ignoring the alpha/beta bs. If you are comfortable with your wife sleeping with other people, it isn't cheating, and it's perfectly fine. If you are not comfortable with it, but allow it to happen because you don't want to lose her. Then you should tell her that, talk about how you love her and don't want her to have sex with other people, and if she cheats leave her.
Well you could calculate the tactical advantage/disadvantage.
Simple. Do you WANT her to cheat? If not... do you WANT to cheat urself?
If not... start a conversation and try to find out IF she wants to cheat really and find out what it is that she is missing in you, which would drive her to cheat.
And work your ass off on the items that she mentions that gives her the need to go look elsewhere.
Try that for a start.
No it’s not. It’s her choice not yours. She could leave but choose to cheat. We won’t know the consequences of she leaving you either. You can’t stop anyone from doing anything specially who is plus 18. Let her do her thing. Life has many many doors, you chill. Don’t let this hurt you in anyway. Because it ain’t your fault, don’t mean she all at fault. She might not be happy in some way. If you care for her be there for her, if she thinks you’re beta let her underestimate you.
I do not believe in the concept of alpha and beta. There are guys that have some self respect and guys that were out sick that day. I don't really have control over whether or not she cheats but I have control over what happens next.
If you let her, then it's not cheating is it? Unless you mean you don't physically stop her from leaving the house. In which case no that's not beta, I assume betas are the ones who need to control their wives all the time. And alphas would be the ones who treat them well. But if she cheats then, ig it depends on what they wanna do from there. It may take alpha to break it off. It may take alpha to work it out to stay together. I don't know.
That's too short to be beta, cuckolds are omega.
Ok first i add some spice to our relationship and cumin her friend. Then she like. "Wtf i thought that was all. I didn't know you would have all these hoes in my house". Then she has to be mature like i was or be a hurt spiteful bitch and leave. Then if she stays i tell her im having kids with other women
If your wife wants to cheat on you she doesn't love you. A person who loves you for real 100% would never cheat on you.
if you let your wife go with other men then its not cheating, example. I can have any man that wants me,
Nice. How short are you by the way
you're obsessed with alpha beta cuz you are insecure. A real man doesn't worry about what is alpha or what is not. Cuz he's confident in himself.
Well I definitely agree that there is a 99% chance that any girl *you* date is going to want to cheat.
If your partner cheats on you, that's not your fault. It says more about their character and their lack of respect for the relationship.
If your partner cheats, show yourself some self respect and leave the relationship.
No idea what beta is really supposed to mean, but I do not accept cheating. The fact that it can be legally done with no real repercussions is reason enough for me to not marry under current laws. Cheating is a one and done in my book.
Your wife cucked you. I don't think that anything more needs to be said, do you?
If you’re legitimately ok with or into it go for it, anything less means you should walk.
If you willingly stay in a relationship like that, then yes, you're a cuck.
No idea about beta. But letting her hurt you over and over sounds like a stupid thing to do.
Whats funny is how so many people get hurt when they walk outside without shoes. Do it enough and you feel nothing
because you're a pussy
you *are* less
Yeah it’s wrong for sure.
Yes, a 99% chance of cheating so you might as well let her cheat right in front of you 🙄 These aren’t even statistics and you are absolutely a beta if you’re “letting” your wife cheat on you.
People don't "let" their partners cheat. Their partners are just gonna cheat anyway
I'll never understand western men.. Dude this is like outrageous to even come across your mind lol
What kind of ridiculous question is that? You have serious issues if you like seeing your wife or girlfriend fuck other guys.
Don't ever call it love. And don't ever call it Marriage. Sounds like neither of you knows what you want. It's makes you a cuck. Its adultery.
Not necessarily. If you're a stag, you do it because it keeps you sharp and it humiliates the wife, which gets you both off.
I mean 80% of women cheat anyways so whether he wants her to cheat or not wouldn't matter.
You are rational
Oh, THIS sounds like it's going to be a great relationship - - - - - - (read sarcastically).
Yes but don’t let her know you want a divorce until you have evidence of her infidelity it will come in handy in court
Its called open sex relationship, not permission to cheat or downgrade to beta.
Just don't get married and it's a non-issue.
Who told you that there is a 50% chance that it will happen?
No, its just fucking stupid nothing to fo with alpha beta, also you may have choosen the bad woman for you if she makes you think at something like this
is your fucking brains beta you dumbass shit for brains? you can't control someone's actions you dumbass
The question is why would I make her my wife and let her cheat no logical sense!
Well... Not all women cheat. And yes it is beta
Alpha, beta... not real things.
Yup a major cuck.
It's not Beta, it's super Beta.
Yeah. That's about the definition.
Yes it is.
Lol good one
Yes.
Totally
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