Ex wants to get back together after split. I was honest but suspect she lying about details during split. Should I even proceed if I have this doubt?

[Anonymous]

My ex came over saying how much she missed me, yatta, yatta. We had been BU for almost a month. I knew she went on a couple dates with some new dude she met on some app. Okay here's the issue though, she asked if I had slept with anyone during the split, I said yes. She said that she had only kissed the dude and added a little more unnecessary info to her sentence to where I thought hmm. To elaborate, she said she had kissed some dude, and added he was a bad kisser, then said, he didn't seem to recognize my body language pulling away. Then she says I mean the kiss was really like a peck.

Which how can you deduce he is bad kisser if it was a peck, I'm thinking lol? Frankly I think she bullshitting me. Tben she says I can't believe you slept with someone yatta yatta and i think is trying to use this as a way to make her self seem in better light. Does this sound like she full of shit?

[petitedollbabee]

Yeah she sounds like she’s lying. If she asks if you had sex and you say yes, and then you ask her and her answer is 10 times longer than a simple yes or no, she’s likely lying. Over explaining to you about a “bad” kiss and then saying it was just a peck. If I was you I wouldn’t get back together. 3 months after accepting her back, she’ll suddenly remember all the other things she did with guys and then she’ll gaslight you when you get annoyed. Not worth it.

[Asker]

Thanks!

[Fireguy17]

Move on, she had her chance, and it didn't work out with the new guy (he probably dumped her) so she would rather be with you than be alone.
Way too much drama.

[lightbulb27]

she's probably downplaying it to protect your feelings.

your call...

[Guy13]

F do ont do it.

[Tracker1958]

Never take her back, she is used good now. Have some pride my man.