Was there a motive behind the action?

[Anonymous]

So a guy friend of mine who is in a relationship with a nice girl who have 2 kids and a baby on the way together said he would stop by my place to have a smoke which he never usually does but then he was talking about how she cheated on him while he was in jail and how he had plenty of opportunities to cheat too but never did because he would feel guilty and how he would be worried she would find out so we just had a smoke and he went home after but part of me wonders if the reason he came by is if he was wanting to get some action from me (if you know what I mean) or if he just wanted someone to talk to? He never stops by, never done this before. Some outside feedback would be appreciated. Also, I'm not one to ever be a home wrecker.

[Haha456]

so I had a similar situation where a married man who was having marriage trouble , he he wanted to take me to a hotel then a road trip so that he could have someone to vent to about his marriage troubles. He also knew I really wanted to go on a road trip.

But eventually I declined. Because I never know if his wife is a psycho and would end up tracking me down, stalking me or even trying to kill me for hanging out with her husband. I have seen such things happen before a lot and a lot of tragic things has happened. I just didn't want to be a part of it.

My advice is: never be caught alone with someone who is married. Because you never know if their spouse is a psycho

[DemonTime]

He definitely wants to get back at her, no man with balls would feel like a man to hear their baby mama got her cheeks clapped by another man if not by you he will definitely get it from someone else otherwise he will feel like a cuck and less of a man it's a guy thing, to determine his motive depends on your history makes sense?

[Asker]

Makes sense, I don't have much history with him. Met him through my coworker that's about it

[SexyRedd1966]

Sounds like to me he just needed someone to talk to... just be his friend... do not get involved in his relationship... You don't want that Karma and you deserve more than being someone's side chick.