Why would a cheater threaten to out the cheating if the lady tells his girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

It sounds like he is trying to control you. If you did such a thing it would harm his reputation and all you women chatter amongst yourself. So I would say Control, Power, Prestige as he is protecting all of his scattered about hoes.

Walk far away from this clown...

[SnowedIn]

Because the fall out and repercussions are usually less (often WAY less) when they confess and own up to cheating than if the disgruntled affair tells them.

[SexyRedd1966]

Well if you tell his girlfriend, you've already outed the cheating

[Anonymous]

Out the cheating? Like tell his girlfriend first?

[Asker]

Yes telling on his self first.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, nobody wants to be blackmailed. Rather than his girlfriend finding out from someone else first he’d rather to it himself.

[Anonymous]

He's a snake in the grass and also a hypocrite.

[Anonymous]

He sounds slow. Why are people giving him sex and rewarding him

[In_Trance]

Desperation

[Asker]

More context?

[TJ1892]

Power