Men, if your friend was cheating on his girlfriend would you tell her?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

I would stay out of other people affairs as what one considers cheating may not be to the parties involved. I find it best to maintain my expressed relationship standards so if I have an opinion with my guy friend…he can’t say “Hypocrite” 🤷🏻‍♂️

[OlderAndWiser]

It is tempting to take sides in such troubled relationships but officious intermeddlers are rarely received with appreciation.

[Asker]

I mean, to be frank

Who cares if they receive appreciation?

Isn't it just right to do right?

I don't know man...

[OlderAndWiser]

If the victim of the cheating doesn't appreciate receiving the information, then who have you benefitted?

[Asker]

Isn't it just the right thing to do? If they don't appreciate it, you couldn't have predicted that

It's like if someone wants to kill themselves but gets mad when you try to save them or talk them out if it

It's still right to not let that person kill themselves

That example was made to illustrate a point

Please don't say how suicide is dissimilar from cheating lol

I know

[OlderAndWiser]

The point of informing the girlfriend is to prevent her from suffering even more heartache at the expense of her cheating partner. But if she doesn't want to believe it, confront it, deal with it, etc. and will be in denial, what good has been accomplished.

Of course, this is not tos ay that te cheating is okay. I've never cheated once in 51 years of dating and relationships but I have been the victim of cheating twice. It's awful.

[USLegionary]

No as its not my business. I'd tell my friend that he's risking his relationship and acting dhitty and leave it at that.

[Jamie05rhs]

Hell yeah, I'd tell her! If you want to be my friend, you have to be a decent person. That is my baseline requirement. If you act like trash, I WILL call you out and I WILL expose you. I give zero fucks.

[exitseven]

Nope, I would tell him he was a asshole for cheating.

[AviatorTom]

Nope, that's none of my business.