My boyfriend stood me up then.. please read the discription below?

[Anonymous]

He did not call before the appointment to tell me that he would not come, and he called an hour after I called him to tell me that he was sorry and that he was far from the city, but it did not seem from his words that the matter was urgent, he tried to call me later, but I did not answer and I told him there is no need because I am not worth anything to him , and that He doesn't care about me , he didn't respond and now he is ghosting me , Did I say something wrong?

[SnowedIn]

Actually, yeah, you did.

First, you have to separate your behavior and his to get to the two pieces of this issue.

He was a jerk. He should have called, texted, carrier pigeon, drone strike -- something. That's on him.

BUT... then you've gone off the deep end: "I told him there is no need because I am not worth anything to him , and that He doesn't care about me". That's like Victorian drama on stage in a badly written play or a 1980s television soap opera. Give me a break. The guy was a jerk but you just turned this into something you need $10,000 of therapy for.

So, yeah, you said all that (you told us you said that) so I am not one single bit surprised that he ghosted you. If this is what happens before a meet up, he is probably extrapolating it outwards and concludes that there would be nothing but drama.

[SnowedIn]

Thank you for MHO!

[Guy13]

No. He’s a child in an adult bidy.