Boyfriend stood me up twice?

[mostlikelyto]

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months at this point, and we're not too serious yet. Over the past month he's stood me up two times.

The first time we had plans to go to the movies but he didn't reply to my texts or make an effort to contact me all day so I had no idea what was going on, and finally a half hour before the movie started I figured I'd just drop by his house to drop off some cupcakes I made for him and his roommate. He wasn't there but I hung out with his roommate for about half an hour when he showed up. He didn't even apologize but I didn't make a big deal out of it because it was the first time he'd done anything like that.

The second time was just yesterday. The day before he had invited me to come over to chill after work but when I texted to confirm that we were still on I got a reply from his roommate saying he went out to a friend's the night before and hadn't come back yet.

I still haven't heard from him and I'm getting pretty to ticked. I mean it's one thing to cancel plans but another to just not show up without warning? I guess I'm just asking if I'm justified in my anger and what I should do? I mean obviously I'm going to talk to him but does anyone think that maybe he's just not that into me anymore? Thanks in advance.

[Blyss]

Girl, it's simple. Give him the same treatment as he is giving you. Don't be too available. Don't text him. When he texts don't reply straight away. Don't seem to available or desperate. Next time he asks you out, tell him you already have plans to go out. Guys always want what they can't have. Your anger is justified but you getting angry is not going to get you what you want. Be aloof and indifferent but at the same time sound like you're still interested. So when he asks you out next time say you'd 'love to go but I already have plans to go out'. You can do it ;)

[purpleballoons456]

Your boyfriend should care about you. He shouldn't have even stood you up once. I understand that things come up sometimes, but in this case the person should at least apologize beforehand and then reschedule. He doesn't care about you or your feelings. I would move on from him and find someone who respects you and looks forward to seeing you, not this jerk/loser who has left you hanging. You deserve better!

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I wish i had a girlfriend who made cupcakes for me, yeah i think you need to give this guy second thoughts , he seems to be playing with your feelings i would seriously
cry if a girl made cupcakes for me. That is just so sweet of you and any man whose
for real would give his right arm to have a girlfriend like you i think you deserve better

[Anonymous]

"If you've been dating a man for four months
And you haven't met any of his friends
You are not his girlfriend"
Chris Rock- "No Sex in the Champagne Room"

It doesn't exactly sound like it's going so well from what you say.

[luvmeggers]

no offense but he seems like he doesn't know what he wants and is playing games

dump him. You deserve better

[badger25]

he is being an jerk. let him know if he wants the relationship to work that shit needs to stop

[Anonymous]

If he stood you up multiple times, you are not important enough to him.

[becca123]

Not a boyfriend. Dump him.

[TheGrumpyCat]

Give him another chance to complete his hat-trick

[SonicRiver]

No more of him.