Is it really fair that my boyfriend says I have nothing going for me outside my job because all I do is go to the gym?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

I think your man is trying to say that your Self-Love Factor is off the chart. He wants you to broaden your interests beyond the cosmetic. It sounds like he is getting bored to me. And so soon after Valentine's Day is reason to be worried. It must have been a slow night at the Valentine's Day motel/hotel...

[Asker]

he's been living here a lot longer than me in the city so he has his friends etc I mean I'm 30 it's not particularly easy to make friends here

[Guy13]

Now you are sharing details that are not in the post. I got what you mean now. www.meetup.com indoor outdoor soccer or whatever...

[boggboss]

Not really sure this is a matter of fair or not lol

[Asker]

He also claimed i dont dress well but i get approached all the time from other guys

[boggboss]

Again seems like a shit thing to say but getting approached by guys ain't really a factor to how well u dress guys don't care about your cloths when approaching

[Asker]

he's probably bored with me as I wasn't able to find clubs in this new city as I was pretty work 6/7 a day October to December it was quite physical I was absolutely exhausted at nights to do anything

[boggboss]

Sounds like a shit relationship

[Asker]

Because I'm working a lot

[boggboss]

No because he seems to insult u for fun and u don't stand up for yourself