Is it true that the longer you hide your feelings for someone the harder you fall for them?

[Philosophy78]

[Guy13]

Not for me because I separate and prevent those encounters which heighten “hidden like”. Turn it off.

[dynamicyandere]

Hmm. Yes and no.


Yes, in terms of there’s a build up of emotions and feelings like a damn filling up with water getting close and closer to bursting.


But, when I really fall in love is when I really get to know them then the mutual confession happens and then it just feels like such a powerful rush and euphoria to connect with someone in deeper and deeper way.


Then as time goes on, if you’re right for each other, your bond just grows stronger and stronger and your commitment deepens as you prove to each other just how important you are to one another.


So, yes I terms of the initial build up before the confession. But then no, because you really fall in love when the bond strengthens. But that takes time and attention and connection.


At least, that has been my experience.

[dynamicyandere]

yes in terms*

[prensesmishka]

I think a feeling is for you to express and share if you think you can.