It's possible, but unlikely.
However, that is irrelevant. The question is, are you going to wait around for him? Or are you going to move on and get what you deserve?
"Again, it's never going to be good news if you have to think of your relationship in terms of 'waiting for him.' He's not a stock you're supposed to be investing in. He's a man who's supposed to be emotionally available enough to talk to you, see you, and perhaps fall madly in love with you."
--He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt
"The operative word in both cases here is 'wait.' You have to do the waiting - the biding your time, biting your tongue, keeping your needs quiet. He's so special, that guy. He deserves to have you sit around, putting your life on hold, not getting what you want, while he takes his time sorting it all out. He's that special. You, of course, aren't at all."
--Liz Tuccillo, p. 125 of He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys by Greg Behrendt
And I know that you say you think he loves you. That's because you're afraid of him not loving you. "You think because he doesn't love you that you are worthless. You think that because he doesn't want you anymore that he is right -- that his judgement and opinion of you are correct. If he throws you out, then you are garbage. You think he belongs to you because you want to belong to him. Don't. It's a bad word, 'belong.' Especially when you put it with somebody you love. Love shouldn't be like that. Did you ever see the way the clouds love a mountain? They circle all around it; sometimes you can't even see the mountain for the clouds. But you know what? You go up top and what do you see? His head. The clouds never cover the head. His head pokes through, because the clouds let him; they don't wrap him up. They let him keep his head up high, free, with nothing to hide him or bind him. You can't own a human being. You can't lose what you don't own. Suppose you did own him. Could you really love somebody who was absolutely nobody without you? You really want somebody like that? Somebody who falls apart when you walk out the door? You don't, do you? And neither does he. You're turning over your whole life to him. Your whole life, girl. And if it means so little to you that you can just give it away, hand it to him, then why should it mean any more to him? He can't value you more than you value yourself."
--Toni Morrison
They can if they thinks it's best for them or all involved.
ugh this is how I've always been with one girl in college and I think she really likes me too but I am always afraid of being with her because I know she is super smart and working towards a masters degree in mathematics and is smarter than me and she works a ton for an investing firm and she kind of intimidates me so I was always afraid to do anything even though she's always really nice to me all the time.
yes. I have been in love with my ex for up to 4 years now. but she's in a relationship with someone else, so I just keep it to myself. in her mind I'm probably already long over her.
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