Should you allow your boyfriend or husbands mother to disrespect you and talk badly and negative about you because it is their mother?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Definitely not. I think some women get afraid of standing up for themselves as not to upset the boyfriend or his mom. But if they don’t want a future of being disrespected and dictated to about how to not only be a wife but a mother, then they’ve got to establish a relationship of mutual respect with his mom.

[Máiiréad]

No, and your husband should be standing up for you. I don't care if that is his mother, he needs to confront her.

[Anonymous]

I was in a similar situation when her older sister talked badly about me and disrespected me I had to walk away from all of them her and her entire family. it hurts and kills me inside every day especially after i bent over backwards helping all of them for years.

[BarryLiverstone]

The priority is the married unit, you and your hubby. If he is disrespecting you then confront him directly.

[LazerBean]

No, but I wouldn't marry someone if that was an ongoing problem anyway.

[humanearth]

Hell no, would you let anyone else do that to you