What was your first relationship like?

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sheenagwapa · Accepted Answer

overall it was happt.. we hug and kiss a lot as in a lot and we dance and we laugh but he doesn't share something deep. in my country we don't know about mental illness. i remember my ex would ask me why do people don't kill themselves and i would then asnwer because it hirts

i just have no idea because if i know early on then i already ask the help of everyone.
we already separated when i knew about it. but he keep on denying it and get mad at me. and accusing me that i'm maligning him that he is somewhat crazy

i bought him a book about depression and there's a checklist inside it. he just looks and acts like a zombie he isn't like that.

so i called his parents and i get paranoid i would keep callinh him and then if he doesn't pick up i would think he killed himself and my plan is to go to his house yeah i will destroy their house promise if i don't get any reply

even just a letter K is fine with me because i hate worrying and tbh if he dates someone else it's fine with me too. i just don't want him to die.

HappyWoman34 · Accepted Answer

It was ok. He was a guy I met from youth group I’ll call Neill. He wasn’t attractive but he was tall and had a killer body. He took my virginity when I was 19. He was a good man who loved me very much but I couldn’t find it in me to love him enough to stay together for a number of reasons. I have fond memories of our time together, my first time with him and the time he made a copy of my favourite musical, Mamma Mia for me and we watched it when my parents weren’t home.. and the hot makeout sessions in the back of his car, late at night.

Drumlin2001 · Accepted Answer

Intense. I was very late bloomer, 35. She was someone I had previously had a connection with but hadn't opened up to. I had a real mental barrier over physical intimacy. She gave me time to work through my issues. Anyway, I felt things were going great till she started getting distant. On valentines day she ended things, and announced she was pregnant. A couple of weeks later she had a miscarriage and we never really talked after that. In all it only really lasted 3-4 months.

Being_a_good_Indian · Accepted Answer

The first relationship you ever have is always exciting because it's new, it's exciting, and it's a learning experience. The best thing you can take away from your first relationship (and each one after) is that you learned more about yourself, what you want in a partner, and how to be the best version of yourself.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

It wasn't a happy relationship cause I did not have experience or know how to be a proper girlfriend and he did not know how to be a proper boyfriend.

Guy13 · Answer

Magical, scary, happy, and eventually sad.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

It was tough, bc I fell in love with the girl I was working with when I was a teen. She had to leave for University and decided it was best to break-up. I would have liked to have seen where it went as we got along really well. 😔 She was smart and very sexy.

Natdabrat · Answer

Omg it was amazing I thought I was for sure going to marry him no matter what but he went to collage and I was in school still so we broke up he was on a episode of girls gone wild after that and it was on late night tv and it was both embarrassing and humiliating and traumatizing now I make them sign a waiver and do a background check

prensesmishka · Answer

It wasn't a relationship, but it was my first love. Or rather, childhood love. We lived in the same neighborhood and went to school together. We would also meet after school to play games in the park. One day he kissed me on the cheek and ran away. It was such an innocent moment. I still smile when I remember.

Vesuvius87 · Answer

It was a toxic relationship. He turned out to be a socipathic-narcissist that wasted my youth and most of my reproductive years keeping me in the forever girlfriend zone. I'm childless because of him.

I plan on solving my case this year though.

melanieeeB · Answer

A Rollercoaster of emotions, lessons and red, green and yellow flaggs lol
Looking back I don't regret it and I definitely felt the most "alive" with him but it wasn't forever and it wasn't the best lol

LazerBean · Answer

Really fun. We were able to spend a lot of time together, and get to know each other very well. It helps that we were already older teens, plus on the mature end of the spectrum. We ended up getting married.

PizzaPieMamaBear · Answer

Amazing I married him and we had 15 amazing years of marriage before he passed

iron_ninjs · Answer

A little awkward at the beginning, because we didn't know how to be in a relationship. But it got better over time.

Guy2809 · Answer

Intense, but empty. I was 16, lasted 2 years but I mean it had no purpose. We were too young to commit to a life together, not that it cannot happen.

JosyJosy · Answer

He was about to cheat so made things easier and dumped his ass.

dave15698 · Answer

Intense, awkward and short lived. Unfortunately she cheated in me with her ex, so it wasn't the best experience.

CreatingWonders · Answer

My first relationship was Toxic and abusive, it lasted over a year, I left 9 months ago and I’m happier now than I was when I was with her.

madamblack · Answer

Actually I didn't keep company with someone and I don't want

Anonymous · Answer

Horrible. I got herpes and now I hate sex or relationships. You never know what’s going to happen. You can never believe someone anymore or ever again. I’m tainted for life. No cure.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Short and intense, since she was only visiting the USA for the summer

legalboxers · Answer

Toxic.. she was a pathological liar.. 20 years ago

Hardworkingguy · Answer

It was a total mess. Don't have good memories about it

Anonymous · Answer

This question kind of makes me mad and depressed cuz it wasn't until later than normal for me

Anonymous · Answer

Mine started after we married as we never dated. It is still going strong after 26 years.

drummerdude25 · Answer

Never been in one.

wkozak · Answer

Cringy, naive, unpredictable, unmature.

Anonymous · Answer

Amazing, but ended tragically

Babygirl_S · Answer

I felt so loved and happy.

scooogy · Answer

I was rather peer-pressured into it

Anonymous · Answer

What first relationship?😆😆😆

abc3643 · Answer

Exciting and scary.

Agape93 · Answer

Happy.

Akam93 · Answer

Its wasn't good.

Zayed_ · Answer

Awful

LadiesFavoriteToy · Answer

S3x?

TheeTrybrid · Answer

A disaster 😂😂😂

briigantexx · Answer

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