How old were you when you had your first relationship and how was it?

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EricSummer · Accepted Answer

I was 17, and we stayed together for more than four years. It was a great time and we discovered sex together as we were both beginners.

On a school trip to Italy she sneaked over to my room in the boys' house and we had sex in my bed while the others were sleeping. Except that one of them was awake, but glhe told me only the next morning. Great guy to have kept quiet.

At first we were both at school, later I was a soldier and then we both went to university, though not in the same city.

In the end she matured faster and was looking for something more serious like starting a family. Back then I was not ready. In the end she broke up as she wanted to leave this carefree "extended youth" that I still enjoyed at 21.

DamianTheSmikkelbeer · Accepted Answer

16, we became a thing in the summer. I remember it being hella hot and a pretty fun time actually, a lot of kissing and hugging. Lasted for a year, she was a loving girlfriend but she treated some people pretty bad which i despise in a partner and she was simply a little immature for my taste. Think i’m either into older women or i keep falling for the attractive but immature women, i don’t know.

Signinggirl123 · Accepted Answer

I was 16/17. It went on for a year. At first I was happy. But he was manipulative (I was never sure if it was intentional since we were young). We would get into arguments and we were good at talking through our problems. Rather, if you would be upset that I was upset and then try to cheer me up only. Not try to solve the problem we had at that moment. I was also a long distance relationship so everything was on FaceTime/Skype.

but eventually, he made a rude comment about my brother, and I broke off the relationship. Definitely learned a lot, so it was worth it in that regard. But I wouldn’t get a guy like him again. The worst part is he try to get back together with me years later. But luckily, he never had the opportunity.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I was around 19 or 20? Yeah, late bloomer here...

It wasn't much of a relationship to be honest. We dated each other because no one else wanted us, yet we wanted to be in a relationship. So we just kind of "tested" dating out on each other. To the point if anyone asks if we were dating, we said "no" because we made good friends, but we knew realistically we shouldn't have dated.

It was a good way to find out what I wanted and didn't want in a relationship and guy though, so that was the only plus to dating him.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I was 32 and it was an unhappy relationship cause I was not ready to date and made many errors in my behaviour and treatment of the guy and he also had no experience so he made errors too. I perfected myself years later, or you could say God and life did, but we have not talked in around 3 or 4 years.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I was 20 years old and it was disappointing. But I picked myself up and started dating again.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

I was in the 4th grade lol

Nah I was 17. It was good. She was this girl who lived in NYC I was living in New Jersey and we had a lot of good times together. In the end it didn't work out.

The heartbreak was real but I moved past it and learned a lot about myself and relationships in general.

exitseven · Answer

I was 16 and there was a girl I met one summer. We hung out a lot and had a few make-up sessions. I really fell in love with her but was afraid to tell her. I went away to college and when I got back I was finally ready to tell her but I never got the chance

Googlemyahoo · Answer

First serious long term relationship was like gr 7. Dated a girl for like 2 years. Met her public skating and she was always at hockey. Went to a different school but I think thats better that way. Young and innocent I remember being excited about holding hands. She ended up moving unfortunately her Dad got another job.

Anonymous · Answer

i was 11 and it lasted 3 years. i don’t know how a dude so vile came from such an amazing family. he was mentally abusive and would flick my head or pull my baby hairs when he got mad at me. i stayed with him for 2 years until he pushed me into a wall and punched a hole right by my head.

Anonymous · Answer

19, lasted for a year. It was unhappy, we both were immature and didn't know what we wanted/needed, plus he wanted to get married right away so we got engaged (my family wasn't happy about it) but we called it off after 2 months only.

I still don't want to get married right now (25) but at least I know what I need in a relationship.

Poppymarie · Answer

I was 19 and it was his first relationship too. The whole thing was very intense and he ended up being abusive. I eventually left him but it took me a long time to get over him.

MysticDevice · Answer

I was 15 and it kinda sucked. Neither of us knew what we were doing and we couldn't get along or agree on anything. Which is fine, cause your first few relationships are all like that. Its how you figure out what you're looking for

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I was 17 and it was with my PADI Dive Instructor (22). She was such a cutey in her wetsuit, I still remember her very well.

Texasgal95 · Answer

I was 14 was with a younger guy at met a church youth group and he wanted to do things I wasn’t comfortable with doing at the time

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I was almost 19. It lasted for a couple months. And it was treated as more important than it should have been. I was know as his ex for a while.

Anonymous · Answer

I was 15. I met him at church. He was 10 years older but he waited until I was old enough to marry. We've two kids and live a good Christian life.

sheikalana · Answer

I was 17/18. It wasn't a good experience. We dated for two years and we were both inexperienced.

rachel776 · Answer

at first i had these mini-relationships that were 2 or 3 weeks long

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I was 22 and it was amazing. It was worth waiting.

annabananna · Answer

I was 17 and it lasted a year. We broke up a week before prom. I went to prom with my friend and that was actually the best. No drama

AsaKyo · Answer

14 years old and it was terrible  I wish I had not listened to my whore friends and just stayed single until I became an adult

hiyamotherfers · Answer

I was 12 and he asked me out Friday and broke up with me on Monday. He even gave me a fake number

Z1pTD · Answer

Too young lol. it was sensual and erotic. We pleased each other almost every day and then one day I couldn't make her cum and she called it quits

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

I was age 28 and she was age 21.

Anonymous · Answer

20.  Three years. Longest I had. Most unhappy I've been after awhile

LiamJHayden · Answer

14. It was great while it lasted, but it was only for July and August of 2009.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

14. It was OK, we kissed not, but hugged and danced with each other.

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

I was turning '13, in the 6th grade in elementary. It was Ok, til I dumped'er for not obeying Me. ( We lasted a month )

gerald5466 · Answer

I was 10 and were still together to this day

OddBeMe · Answer

2nd grade. Pretended we were married. Kissed me on the cheek. Jewish blond gal. Elizabeth.

shades777 · Answer

I believe I was 19 and just got in college, Alexandria, my first love.

najekim · Answer

17. She was 20. Was great! Then she moved for a job.

Vintersjel · Answer

I was only 2. Not very long at all. I didn't like the fact that she kept having to change my pull-ups.

Anonymous · Answer

19. It lasted about a year and that was the most exciting year of my life at the time. Shame it ended for no reason.

Starwisper23 · Answer

I was 13 and it was ok but we split up because he had a huge crush on my mom

alearningboy · Answer

I am 23 just found it few weeks ago. I was shy but tried talking with her.

riverrat3 · Answer

I was 14 with my first girlfriend, I was clueless, did not last long, we are now good friends

Simslover92 · Answer

31 and it's still going on. It's great so far.

Anonymous · Answer

You should ask “when did you become garbage?”

menina · Answer

I'm still waiting for my fist relationship.

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I was 15, it was pretty good for a first.

FreyaRed · Answer

15 euphoric then disappointing

MementoMori777 · Answer

I was 19, it was good, I don't regret anything

FunkyMonkee · Answer

3 weeks shy of 25. It was fucking great!!

Nikki1989 · Answer

I was 12. It lasted 2 years.

Spade_01 · Answer

Serious relationship?

Akam93 · Answer

I was 18 and it was awful.

Pink2000 · Answer

15. He cheated on me several times.

Anonymous · Answer

25, good because i'm still with him.

slightlydelusional · Answer

i was 18 and it was bad

LavLavLuv · Answer

14 it was kinda lame and funny

Anonymous · Answer

I'll let you know when I do.

Anonymous · Answer

I was 21 , kinda late but lasted over a year

RoastedToast · Answer

I was 22 😂

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