Is it rude to not let someone have something I dont use?

[Anonymous]

I let this guy use my apple watch two times. He had one of the older versions while I had one of the new ones. He broke his somehow and asked to use mine temporarily. I let him use it cause he has a good paying job and im thinking he'll give it back with ease. But each time i asked for it back he told me he still needed to use it and complained that i dont even use it and that I should just give it to him. It took me weeks to get it back and I had to show up to his workplace to get it. It does sit on my dresser not being used. I use it sometimes but not as much as he does, he used it everyday 24/7. I bought it for myself with my own money. He thought i would let him have it since i don't use it but i dont want him to because he does nothing for me.

[Guy13]

Sell it or give it to sister. Just because some guy wants something doesn’t mean he can have it ‼️ Same with a woman..

[WaterIsland]

Not rude at all. He is trying to steal your property. It doesn’t matter how often you use it. It’s yours. That’s it. Don’t let him guilt you into that. That is manipulative and abusive on his part. You asked for it back, he needs to give it back.

[Fireguy17]

Not for free, it has value so sell it to him.
What happens if he breaks this one too?