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Dating for a few weeks. He said:
"You cannot love one person it's biologically impossible"
"I have married friends they love each other but they do other things too"
I was like what about being faithful? He said you can if you love someone
I got shocked & upset, but I didn't want to fight. We fell asleep together. I woke up, left and never talked to him again
Did I overreact?
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Well, love isn't a biological thing, it's a psychological thing. And it absolutely is possible to love one person.
He's an idiot and you shouldn't surround yourself with stupidity, it will rub off on you.
You did the right thing
I got upset. I wasn't expecting it at all. We were agreed on dating. How come a person can say this to their date?
Like I said, he's an idiot.
He thinks it's ok to spread his unfounded nonsense on his date, instead of showing her a good time and making her feel special
Don't even think about him. He's not worth it
No I think you’re incompatible. With what you want.
Am I incompatible? He wanted to date Lol
Both of you. There’s nothing wrong with you. You wanted different things.
Yeah I left him that night
I think you’re second guessing yourself because you’re lonely. Just be single for a while and don’t settle for less than you deserve.
He knew what you wanted and he made it clear to you in his own words that he doesn’t want commitment.
Because I'm lonely? Be nicer.
I did cut him off without even goodbye. If I were lonely, I'd stick around and wait for him like a lot of women do.
I left him in his bed in the morning, I left without goodbye and explanation. He reached out to me "where did you go? baby?" He knew what he did. I didn't even respond him
Are you in love with him?
I just checked your age. I’m sorry, the advice I gave you was a bit hard to hear. I thought you were older. I had to actively try to remind myself what it feels like to be young and passionately in love. The pain isn’t as intense in your thirties quite often. But when you’re young, you haven’t learnt to shut the feelings down. When I loved a man who broke my heart in not being ready for commitment, I was your age and had a similar situation except we never had sex. Sex complicated emotions for women. What you need to do is let yourself feel the pain. Cry when you need to. Talk to your mum and comfort eat. Stay single until you start to like someone else. It always helps more than promiscuity which was my answer at your age. Which only makes you feel worse.
No but if you're dating someone, of course you'll have minimum expectations. I got disappointed for sure.
The key thing here is you made the right decision.
Never have minimum expectations. Always demand respect. A man gave me good advice that if you wouldn’t be proud to introduce a man to your inner circle as your boyfriend or fiancé, then don’t go out with him, no matter how he makes you feel. My advice? Don’t make the mistakes I did. It’s your choice but if you do, you’ll get hurt like I did.
If you don’t, you’ll sort the wheat from the chaff, much sooner than I did.
There really are good men wanting love and commitment. You’ve just got to find them and you will. Try joining church groups, meetup activities and Hiki dating site.
I'm 25 I was emotionally invested. Hoping something could be beautiful. Since he said "he wants to date" naturally, I expected him to be open commitment, loyalty or relationship. That what "dating" means to me. What he said to me, is a big no (for me) And I simply wasn't expecting it
I understand. It sounds like he led you on and that sucks.
You’re not a whore. Even if you’d wanted something casual. But there are arseholes out there, lying arseholes that can’t keep their pants zipped (him not you). It’s happened to me before too. You’re not stupid either.
What do you mean by led me on? I wanted to have potentially happy relationship, but I'm not dumb to stick around. I just felt disrespected and my feelings got hurt, for sure.
Obviously your intentions were pure. Coming from a good place and they still are. Don’t waste them on this bum. He’s not worthy of you.
It happens to all of us. I’m not implying that you’re stupid. I’m saying he is.
One day he’ll regret it too. They always do but by then you’ll be over him.
Apparently, he's not stupid either. Since he led me on.
I’m going to go to sleep now, but if you need to talk about it in more detail, I’ll be back tomorrow. Take yourself to bed and have a cry or punch your pillow and wait for the sun to come up tomorrow. If it’s daytime already? I’d talk to my mum for a bit. That’s always helped me. But I’ll be back tomorrow.
He’s streetwise, but he’s stupid in intelligence.
Why did you ask if I'm fall in love with him?
Because you were very upset and I remembered that I’ve felt the same way when I was in love, when I was young.
At least we know I was upset, I didn't tell anything to him. I'm glad he doesn't know.
Yes, he’d only see it as a weakness, which it’s not. Kindness and love are strengths.
He texted "Where did you? Baby" and I only texted "Home" We never either blocked each other or reached out each other ever again. Very upsetting. I wish I could speak up, how he hurt my feelings, how he was cruel and vicious to me. I didn't want to look weak. I'm still upset after months. What he did to me was cruel. I wouldn't be this hurt if we were in somewhere in date... He said that to me when I was naked in his bed right after sex. I tried not to cry when I was naked. He hurt me very hard.
He texted "Where did you? Baby" and I only texted "Home" We never blocked each other or reached out each other ever again ether. I wish I could speak up, how he hurt my feelings, how he was cruel and vicious to me. I didn't want to look weak. What he did to me was cruel. I wouldn't be this hurt if we were in somewhere in date... He said that to me when I was naked in his bed right after he was inside of me. I tried not to cry when I was naked. He hurt me very hard.
He was giving forehead kisses, I swallowed his cum... I'm still hurt after months.
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Wise move on your part, he makes no sense.
I got very upset though. I believed we had a connection, I got shocked
He chased me and told me he wants dating thing too lol like WTF he's talking about?
I thinnk he's confused.
Like how and why?
Seems he doesn't know what love and being friends means.
Like what do you mean? The difference between love or friends or?
Hello?
He doesn’t seem to know the difference between love and friendship
What you mean? you think he sees me as friend or love?
Friend.
He lick my pussy all night long 😂😂 Sure