When you’re in a relationship, can you slap your girlfriend’s butt whenever you feel like it without her permission?

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SteveSmith1985 · Accepted Answer

Yes I have always done that tbh. But only because I know that she's ok with it.

If she were ever to indicate that she wasn't ok with it, then that would change my behavior.

But otherwise... yes, I do assume that I can grab a girlfriend's ass by default. It's never been an issue for me.

To be honest I've never thought about that before. It's still very-much about consent. But no, I don't think I've ever actually asked for consent in words.

If there's any doubt ask. If she tells you it's not ok it's not. But... for most girlfriends I think it is ok with them. (at least in my own personal experience).

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

That’s the rule in our house and it goes both ways. Pants off, white dress shirt hanging long, in kitchen or in traffic area, and pop for sure. Give and Take is good System

BrookeAZ90 · Accepted Answer

I'm fine with mine slapping me on the butt whenver but I do it to him all the time too.

desidoll · Accepted Answer

Yes, my guy can do that anytime he wants except during argument or when I am angry.

Accused24 · Answer

I personally like when my fiance slaps my butt but... he over does it to extreme measures most the time so its become a problem. I tell him I don't want him to slap or touch my butt because it's like every 5 mins or less and no I'm not exatragrating its obsessive and he gets worse when other guys are around and I can't do anything without him doing it. If it were more spaced out it wouldn't be such a problem but in his eyes that means I don't love him and I want to be with someone else or I'm trying to make sure someone else like a man doesn't see.

serious · Answer

I think that would depend on the woman and how much she likes that. Some would want their boyfriend to do it and some don't. I think this is subjective.

LivDev · Answer

I'm okay with it, it's the scare factor that annoys me sometimes.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

In every relationship I was in... that like the preferred behavior pretty much.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

As with everything in relationships; the name of the game is love and respect. Slap da boody with care.

AdithyaR · Answer

Depends on whether you two are cool with that or not. If it's something you both like then it's fine, otherwise it's crossing consent.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

She took liberties with me, why shouldn't I do likewise?

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes because they probably like it anyway if not, they will tell you just don’t do it out in public because she might get embarrassed

Twalli · Answer

I don't have to ask her each time, but if she got mad if I did it, I couldn't say that since she's my girlfriend I have that right.

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

It think that would depend on boundaries established. I'd like it that way, lol.

Musiclover33 · Answer

I like it, but I give it back. If they say they don't like it then no it's not ok.

JohnnyCanuck · Answer

I mean probably yes, but you'd have to have been dating for a long time.

Anonymous · Answer

I think so, if you want to. Best to ask your girlfriend what she thinks

Nikki1989 · Answer

No, it's annoying.

Alex-Snow · Answer

I would ask her first if she was ok with it

loveslongnails · Answer

Without a doubt.

Anonymous · Answer

that's gonna get annoying real quick.

gagfriend · Answer

Make sure, she likes it

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

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