Should I marry a woman who doesn't want kids if I love her?

[Anonymous]

[Guy13]

She told you going in so don’t blame her later.

[Asker]

@guy13 having kids has never been a goal of mine anyway, I'm fine with being the last of my family line.

[Yourthatbsf]

Do you love kids & want kids? Majority of women loves to feel motherhood including me for example i love kids & i want kids but on the other hand i know i won't be able to bear the labour pain, taking care of the kid, hormonal.. body changes. You can discuss if you both want babies in future maybe she might understand, if not then you should respect her decision. Communicate with her. Only you two can decide what you want in your life.

[Asker]

I've had time to think about it, I've come to the conclusion that being with her is more important to me than being a father.

[Anemone978]

Bad Idea if you want kids... never marry a person that has different belief's as you, or different wants it will never work out because you will be constantly compromising for them...

[Asker]

The idea of having kids seemed rather unappealing to me.

[Anemone978]

well if you two want the same things go for it!

[Asker]

Some have said marriage is pointless without kids, what do you think?

[Anemone978]

No I think it is great, why would you need kids to have a happy and meaningful marriage. Marriage is about love, commitment and spending your life together lol

[Asker]

True, must be some anti marriage talk. I've wanted to be a husband, just not a father.

[Berethor]

The divorce rate is at 50%, do you want to risk your money for a fruitless relationship?

[Asker]

Yes.

[Adam1978]

No, if you want kid you should put her in the friendzone and find one that wants kids. If you don't want kids. Keep dating her but don't bother with marriage. That only encourages a divorce.

[Asker]

So live with her but don't marry her?

[Adam1978]

Yes no reason to marry. Why should she has claim on your stuff, that would be for next generation, give it to your siblings kids if you don't intend to have your own.

[Asker]

I don't have any siblings but I don't intend on having kids.