I'm always suspicious of him cheating with one of my friends?

[Anonymous]

She always facetimes him and he completely ignores me when she disrupts our conversation and she always grabs his attention, she always randomly says she doesn't like him out of the blue and I never see him show any sign on text of him being with her.

[Summeroflove]

I can’t say 100 percent but if you have a bad feeling you’re not stupid. Now he may feel that if you’re not smart enough to figure it out you’re stupid that’s how narcissistic people think therefore you deserve it. But you don’t.

Her saying that randomly is NOT normal just to say stuff like that. That is a red flag to me men are more opportunists (on average) whereas women (on average) will plan everything out. The before, during, and after. So it’s likely they are covering it up.

It’s very possible that she fancied him so she planned out how to sleep with him and when the opportunity came he jumped at it. It sucks when a friend betrays you it hurts a lot worse then when it’s someone random. But I think the trust is gone.

Just because you don’t see someone texting doenst mean they aren’t covering it up. Communicating other ways. The list goes on. I definitely think you’re on to something.

Can I say for sure? No. They are probably good at leaving plausible deniability to gaslight you. Maybe they aren’t but the odds aren’t in your favor at all. Especially if she’s just interrupting your conversation to talk to him and he’s talking to her.

[Summeroflove]

I’m guessing that she planned on doing things to get herself alone with your boyfriend. She planned exactly how she was going to cover it up and everything else.

Boyfriend…. Like I said. Opportunist it arose and he took the bait. Now do I know for sure that’s what happened? No but that’s how it generally goes.

You have to think that she probably planned everything. She probably planned how to cover it up and hide it from you. The worst part is sometimes they will use other friends to help them. Not at all sayint your other friends are involved but it happens

[Quackthulu2]

So why are you dating this guy?

[Asker]

Yes.

[In_Trance]

End it now. This will never change