Do men really want a loving relationship?

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I don't think they do because all they care about is fucking a girl and leaving her. So disgusting they are. Don't even wanna get married anymore. Men are so disgusting and queer these days..

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Some do and some don't.

The ones who don't are largely more "exciting" and are often successful, because they're SELFISH and SELF-CENTERED - but women are drawn to those qualities like a moth to a flame. Those guys, being so self-centered, often look good, are interested in going out and partying, and "live for today" because they don't worry about tomorrow. At the beginning, women find those traits irresistible.

Those same men have no use for relationships, and all they want from women is sex and a bit of companionship. Still, women are so drawn to such men that they have lots of options with women, so they can easily replace her with another girl the minute she starts being difficult - like, say, bugging them for a relationship or asking them to treat her with courtesy and respect.

The men who want relationships and who actually care also tend to be responsible, and they plan ahead, which makes them predictable and reliable - but most women see that as BORING, and tune those guys out completely, making them invisible. Those men get relatively little experience with women, and so they aren't as smooth or as good with women, and often seem more awkward, and this further drives women away when they take a chance on one. Finally, these men tend to want women who are potential WIVES, not party girls and not career-focused women, but rather women who are family-oriented. They also want women who are YOUNG, because they want families, and this means they're looking to marry women who are in their early-to-mid 20s. They are far less likely to accept anything less than that, because they've seen what happened to their fathers, uncles, and grandfathers who married career women (divorce and financial rape).

A lot of "modern women" - i. e., career-focused, party girls - expect to end up with a "traditional" outcome of getting married to man who takes care of her financially - but that's a pipe dream. Of the men who want to marry, the overwhelming majority of them have no use for "modern women", especially not those who wait until their 30s - when most or all of their reproductive potential is gone - to marry. They are strictly picking "traditional" women - young and family-oriented - to marry. Many are even going overseas to find such women, and they're doing this despite being loudly, publicly shamed by "modern women" who are angry about being overlooked.

Feminism has pushed women NOT to become wives, but rather to BECOME the very men they really wish they were married to - to become career-oriented and to treat sex as if it were meaningless. Such women destroyed 2 generations of families via divorce, and men have learned that lesson, and most would rather remain single forever than to marry a "modern woman". But, yeah, they'll still use "modern women" for sex when they can, and such women are often desperate for male attention and HOPE that they'll get a real relationship, and are willing to trade sex for that hope - which is almost never realized.

But that's how so many women end up where you are - bitter and angry about men. They ignore the "relationship guys" - partially because they're "boring" and partially because they know that they aren't the women those men are looking for. And the hot, exciting guys that they're so attracted to and who live the high lifestyle they crave care nothing for them, and only use them for sex - usually making no secret about their intentions.

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for anyone else, but, I like a loving relationship based on mutual respect and trust. I may not be into getting married, but, she would have my word and honor that I would never step out on her.

Considering, how a lot of marriages fail these days, a certificate really means nothing. My word and bond mean everything to me, it makes me who I am.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Men want love too, it's a human thing to want to be loved. Those men you are talking about are just not partner material.
Search more and when you are talking to someone do not have sex till at least two months, 3 even. As if they stay, text or call you, you talk about deeper, not only superficial stuff you know he is serious about you too and not a fuck boy.
Fuck boys are usually so handsome that work with minimal effort. Sometimes that doesn't even mean they go to drinks together before doing it later. I watched a video where a fuck boy said all that

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Yes, many still do. It sounds like you just don't have access to any decent ones.

HighValue · Answer

More men want an exclusive LTR than women do. More women cheat, more women end marriages, more women mess over their partner.

My advice is if you had bad luck with a partner you chose, next time choose someone with different qualities. Don't pick another partner that is very similar to the one that it didn't work out with.

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

Don't associate your inability to get a man become emotionally attracted in you, as proof that all guys are bad. It's a toxic outlook that creates more baggage you carry to the next guy, because it will only make your chances of experiencing the same outcome far greater

exitseven · Answer

I know that I did. I had a string of short relationships for about a year and they were all just to give me something to do. The difference between these and when I finally met somebody that I could really have a loving relationship was really big.

serious · Answer

Yes of course, there are men who want a loving relationship. Just because of some men being the way you mentioned it is not fair to put the entire male gender into that category.

Derekk · Answer

What's with the "queer" addition at the end? Are men fucking too many girls or are they too gay? Can't be both.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The issue is partially your age, but yes, there are plenty of men who want loving relationships.

NamerOfStars · Answer

A man wanting to have sex with women is "queer" now? I guess straight is the new gay.

noohair · Answer

That is what I look for. But I am older. Men used to have to make a commitment to a woman for sex That was love and marriage. Women wanted freedom and equality. This is the unintended consequence.

bean2k21 · Answer

You just haven't been properly trained yet.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I do. And I had the best one ever until she died.

Anonymous · Answer

Why are women so hung up on that old patriarchal rite of ownership? Aren't we past that as a society? Haven't we proven that institutional marriage has no real sanctity anyway?

Unit1 · Answer

Here I am wondering whether women want a loving relationship because I am having doubts about that 😒😒😒

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I want a loving relationship, and others do as well, some don't though.  Usually its the dumb ones and the asexuals that don't.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I'd sure as fuck love to have another one!! HOPEFULLY, THIS TIME, she REALLY loves me!!

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Yes, I'm willing to wait to marriage for a loving relationship and sex.

Anonymous · Answer

As are women thinking they can go for the bad guys and conventionally attractive guys during their prime and then expecting a good guy to marry them as soon as they past 30.

Shamalien · Answer

Yes, plenty of them do. Pick one that’s in your league and you’ll realize that

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do. Some don't. I won't accept just a physical relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Most men realize women aren't worth it. Nowadays 90% are certified sluts before 25.

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously yes. Even men want loving relationship especially with girls.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Hey, balls gotta get drained.

rabbitzzz · Answer

Young men do, those who are not yet broken

TallAnon · Answer

Not if you act like that

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I do. But nobody wants me.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Nice troll 👍

Anonymous · Answer

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