Men in relationships?

[Anonymous]

Okay so I have been in a relationship with this guy for a little over 2 years. We went to the same school but hug out with different crowds so we only ever knew of each other. We jumped in pretty fast within 4/5 months of being together I got pregnant and now we have a one year old. I think it started when I was pregnant, he wasn't as intimate or affectionate with me as much. Less cuddling amoung other things, I've told him numerous times that Im not receiving what I need from him. Told him EXACTLY what I need, basically just some more affection I crave to be held at night call me lame but I love that cute lovey cuddly in your face shit okay I got so emotional once I was just crying in front of him basically begging him to just fucking hold me... and nothing no emotion no change. That was a few months ago, Now days I feel nothing from him he rarely says he loves me hasn't touched me at all in days... Its to the point when I feel like something's wrong with me. Like I disgust him... I keep asking myself if he ever really wanted to be committed to me and if he ever loved me? He's made it clear he doesn't anyone in my eyes. AM I JUST A CRAZY BITCH? what do you guys think lmk. 🙂☺️

LEAVE HIM

TRY TO WORK IT OUT

YOUR A CRAZY BITCH

[xiaolian]

Its complicated you are so much right. I would say to break with him right away if you 2 didn't have a kid.

I would like to see him changing for the kid, he should take responsibility, man up.

You can't change your way, so if he doesn't change immediately, it will be a sad relationship without love.

Dont show love to him, you should direct all your love for the child, he could think you are needy, he doesn't respect how you are, that's not love. His thinking is very different from you.

if he doesn't love you, dosn't show love for your child, then you dont have a future.

[xiaolian]

You should domesticate him, that should be what he likes.

[Iron_Man]

What’s the problem does your pregnancy upset him that much

[RavenBloodswiin]

Honestly, This is tricky.. I get where you're coming from 100% I feel like you're still dealing with it very calmly by having the talks with him. It clearly doesn't bother him enough for him to acc do anything about the situation tho.. my heart honestly breaks for you.. All advice i can really give you is that you need to do what's best for YOU. The fact that a baby is involved will complicate this a little. But you need to look after you first to be in the right state to be able to look after others.

Hope that helps at least a little.

[SnakeBoop]

If you've told him and there's been no effort to come to even a compromise, toss the trash out.

[r4nd0mus3r]

if you werent pregnant id say to leave. but for the sake of the child do whatever you can to figure stuff out

[Guy13]

All women are crazy