I am engaged but still attracted to an old crush? what should I do?

[Anonymous]

We knew each other and we were talking before I met my fiancé. I stopped talking to him when I got in a relationship and he didn't reach out either. I didn't really think about him much but then I found his phone number in an old notebook and texted him. He replied right away and we started talking again. I told him I am engaged now but that doesn't stop him from being very flirty sometimes and I like it. I love my man and our relationship is great but I feel like I still have a crush on my friend too.

[megabamse]

Huff, take a big girl choice and break contact with this crush or break up with your fiance. You can absolutely not have both. But here is the kicker. Imagine you break it off and you start dating this other guy. There is absolutely no guarantee that he is any better then your fiance, also there is no guarantee that he will love you back or the relationship will last. Finally there is a small chance you are not really in love with this other guy at all. You might just feel lack of something and you subconsciously fill him into this need. Like you miss having more attention or miss feeling wanted or what ever it is. And you are not really in love.

[serious]

This is not good. You have to decide one way or another. Either you break up your engagement and then follow your crush and see where it goes or you should stop texting and talking to your crush and remain loyal to your engagement with your fiancée.

What you are currently is very disrespectful and highly inappropriate.

[Anonymous]

You need to choose one. Weigh out who you feel makes you more happy, this crush guy or your fiancé. And you need to figure this out soon. It's not fair to the fiancé or your crush.

[Finchie40]

Then you probably should end your engagement with your fiancé if you still have feelings for your crush or you will just be wasting your time and your fiancé’s time by getting married , the thing is if you truly loved your fiancé you wouldn’t of contacted your crush. , so you are best to end the engagement and pursue your crush

[Jdjfjcjj]

Interesting you said "I love my man man and out relationship is great", and not "I'm so in love"

[SlothySlob]

Wait, I don't get it, you want to fuck this other guy... If given the chance, would you?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

If you really loved your partner, you'd stop talking to this person and delete the number. Make a choice. Your fiance or this guy.

[Marked_Man]

You're disgusting.

[Anonymous]

What’s wrong with you? Why would you do that shit?

[spartan55]

You are gross.

[Anonymous]

so you're a piece of shit good to know

[In_Trance]

figure this shit out