What are “spoiled” people like?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Everyone always thinks I am spoiled, my romantic partners, my family, my friends - what makes people think so?

and why do they still love me?

[caring__1]

Spoiled people feel entitled to more or better than others. You say you're grateful, yet spoiled people often don't appreciate what they have, as they believe it is a given that this is the way things are supposed to be. They put themselves first and aren't likely to show consideration for how their choices impact others. They often expect handouts and seek external validation rather than achieving for themselves and validating themselves. These qualities are generally seen as selfish and negative, yet the world does seem to be going in that direction, with many people feeling entitled to control what others do or what freedoms they may have.

As far as your question why people still love you, you're probably not completely spoiled or spoiled in all areas. Maybe you do show consideration for others in some areas, and that consideration may make you lovable. It's possible to enjoy a forest without focusing only on the fact that the ground is dirty.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I agree, I think I am spoiled in some areas but compensate for it by being very caring, loving, understanding, attentive and supportive in other areas.

[caring__1]

Just make sure you reach out to see things through the eyes of the other person, so you can consider whether you choose to fine tune your behaviors. It's important our choices work for the other, also, not just ourselves.

[serious]

They will behave as if they are entitled to things, they believe they deserve better thing as compared to others even if they are not skilled/talented.

They will act and speak in an arrogant manner. They will act as if they can buy anything and anyone they want.

[LiamJHayden]

It might be because your parents treated you better or gave you more than their parents gave them. I get called that because I am the only child of two only children, thus sole heir of two families.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I didn’t have rich parents, I lacked lots of things but I was happy and what I had was the support and respect from my parents. So, I always respect my wishes and put myself first and I rarely go out of my way to please people, I always act my way to the point that people won’t even complain they just accept that this is who I am. Like, I am usually 10-15 minutes late at work and they adjusted my time the way that I can go anytime I want.

It’s also, I always get nice treatment from people, they cook for me,

[loveslongnails]

It means you're used to getting most things that you want without doing much to earn them because you believe you're entitled to them.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why do men like spoiled girls?

[Still-alive]

i would say this and also when they don't get what they want they complain or cry about it. its basically a 'me me me' mentality to have.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Still-alive I am not the one to complain, cause I already usually get what I want even without asking.

With my ex fiance it made me feel more in love and more willing to make him happy too.

[Still-alive]

@lafemmefatale_1 thats fine. yeah its more the mentality than anything else. you don't come across that way to me if you're wondering

[loveslongnails]

I don't believe men "like spoiled girls" in the long run. I think they enjoy toying with them if they can sex in return for spoiling them, but it won't last long with most men, I believe. For the men with low self-esteem or the men that care most about eye candy on their arms, they'll keep spoiling women to keep them or get their attention.

[msc545]

I ussed to get called this because I was an only child. Just ignore it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am an older sister of a brother and I wasn’t raised by rich parents, so sometimes even I am surprised why am I this spoiled.

[Still-alive]

Here ya go a theme song about what i feel best encapsulates the word 'spoiled' lol

https://www.youtube.com/embed/9zhWlOUMVU0

if you can relate to this song then maybe you are spoiled lol

[Alex8736]

TBH you sound like you are confident, independent, goal oriented and if someone were to tell you that you were spoiled or had it made it most likely be the reason people told me I had it made was because I never complained

[OneManOnly01]

Don’t mean to offend or anything but a lot of your questions seem like you’re humble bragging. That kind of behaviour could very well be annoying to a lot of people

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Haha, I don’t get offended, don’t really care much anput GaG

[OneManOnly01]

Don’t really care much about what?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I mean, I don’t care about how I look like on GaG :P

[OneManOnly01]

So you’re different IRL?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

On GaG I express some of my thoughts that I hide in real life.

[OneManOnly01]

Fair enough. Guess that’s what it’s meant for

[Hanrej]

Spoiled people, as I define them, not only put themselves first but also expect other to do so.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You are a spoiled girl, and spoiled girls need spankings

[Texaskid1]

They tend to be self-centered, obnoxious , and insufferable cunts that I would not mind throwing out of a window into oncoming traffic.

[KrakenAttackin]

Most women are pretty spoiled but they don't realize it. Simp nation is a real thing.

[Jltakk]

Spoiled people lack perspective that can only be learned through experience.

[Anonymous]

This is easy the whole country knows this, we had a spoiled fucker as President, Trump.

[MementoMori777]

You take, you don't give

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why do they love you then?

[MementoMori777]

Because they can't control who they fall for, it also comes with complaining as well, when they don't get something mostly, it gets to a point where they won't be able to stand the ungratefullness and they will leave, just know you heard it here first, or second 🤔

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am always grateful ^^

[MementoMori777]

I sure hope so lol

[Iron_Man]

Do you act stuck up?