Okay so I want to tell him that I love him but I just can’t get over the fact that he hooked up with other people and I’ve told him this and I said that I’ll hook up with two other people to make it even but I can’t bring myself to do it. I feel like I’m being irrational but I can’t help it and I don’t know what to do.
It’s understandable that you may be feeling jealous and hurt after your ex-boyfriend hooked up with other people. It's important to take the time to process your emotions and to be honest with yourself about what you want and need in your relationship with him.
It's also important to remember that you don't need to "make it even" by hooking up with other people. Revenge or retaliation rarely leads to healthy or fulfilling outcomes, and it's important to prioritize your own well-being and self-care.
If you are struggling to move past your feelings of jealousy and hurt, it may be helpful to seek support from trusted friends, family members, or professionals, such as a therapist or counselor, who can offer guidance and support as you navigate your emotions and your relationship.
Remember, it's important to prioritize open and honest communication, mutual respect, and trust in any relationship. If you feel ready to tell him that you love him, it may be helpful to approach the conversation in a non-confrontational and respectful way, while also expressing your feelings and expectations clearly and honestly. Ultimately, the best way to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship is to prioritize your own well-being and to communicate openly and honestly with your partner.
Don't tell him you love him. And don't do hookups. Start afresh with him. He obviously had been with other women before you met him anyway.
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I would not want a girl that done that as well, but guys tend to care more about body count.
Chad Thundercock is gonna get his balls drained. Chasing Chad has a well known path, so just accept it.
You're jealous because an ex saw other people? I cannot comprehend this.
You live with it or you move on.
That simple
Forget this Man
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