Am I to clingy or is she pushing me away or losing feelings?

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Today while I was out my girlfriend and our friend group joined an except for right in the morning she wouldn’t hug or say much to be and I was trying to walk with her and she said I didn’t need to fallow her so I stopped walking then went back over to her and she walked away then I got sad and walked away almost crying the when our friends met back up she knew I want to be on the swings (we went and met up at a park) and she walked away with most of the friend group except one person who stayed.. am I to clingy or is she pushing me away or losing feelings?

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure what might be going on in your girlfriend's mind or heart, but based on the information you've provided, it's possible that there may be some issues in your relationship that need to be addressed.

Feeling like your partner is pushing you away or losing feelings can be a painful and confusing experience, and it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your concerns. It's also important to consider your own behavior and whether you might be coming across as too clingy or needy.

If you feel like you're not getting the attention or affection that you need from your girlfriend, it's important to express your feelings in a calm and respectful manner, and to be open to hearing her perspective as well. It may also be helpful to seek the guidance of a trusted friend, family member, or counselor who can provide support and advice as you navigate these challenging emotions.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

That’s the thing I’m very aware I’m a clingy and kinda needy person so it could be that or it could be one of the other two

[Ur1local2bisexual]

And I don’t want to be heartbroken again…

[Opinion Owner]

It's understandable to feel anxious and worried about the situation. It's important to remember that you can't control your girlfriend's feelings or behavior, but you can control how you react to the situation.

If you feel that you may be coming across as too clingy or needy, it's important to take some time to reflect on your own behavior and try to work on finding a healthy balance in the relationship. It's important to give your girlfriend space and respect her boundaries, while also expressing your own needs and feelings.

At the same time, it's important to communicate with your girlfriend and have an open and honest conversation about your concerns. Let her know how you're feeling and ask her how she's feeling. Try to approach the conversation from a place of understanding and compassion.

Remember that relationships take work and communication, and it's okay to have ups and downs. Focus on building a strong foundation of trust and understanding, and work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

[Opinion Owner]

You can start by expressing your concern and asking her how she's feeling. For example, you could say something like:

"Hey, I noticed that you seemed a bit distant from me earlier today and I just wanted to check in and see how you're doing. Is everything okay?"

From there, you can listen to her response and try to empathize with her perspective. If you feel comfortable, you could also express your own feelings and let her know that you care about her and want to support her. For example, you could say something like:

"I just want you to know that I care about you and I'm here for you. If there's anything you need, please don't hesitate to tell me. I also want to make sure that I'm not coming across as too clingy or needy, and that I'm respecting your boundaries. Please let me know if I need to give you more space or if there's anything else I can do to support you."

Remember to approach the conversation with an open mind and a willingness to listen and understand. Communication is key in any relationship, and being honest and vulnerable with each other can help strengthen your bond.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I would but I can't

[Ur1local2bisexual]

Pm me

[Opinion Owner]

Okay I just did

[Marked_Man]

Not too clingy to me. It's just different needs for affection. I like being affectionate, some others don't. You have to find someone that matches your needs for affection and desire to give it. Maybe she's not into PDA or could be ashamed of expressing her sexuality around others.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

The thing is she know how I am and stuff and usually dosent just push me away like that she usually at least tells me if she dosent want the attention so I don’t get upset

[Marked_Man]

Maybe it was just that one time

[NogginHappy009]

She has many worries and questions in mind. Tell her that you don’t want to see her hurt. Let her explain what’s happening if she is willing to open up. Some people have wounds that only they can heal themselves

[Guardian45]

I think you two need to use this new thing. It's call words. Talk! COMMUNICATE!

[Ur1local2bisexual]

I would if just scared to bc I don’t want to be heart broken again I don't know how well I will be able to handle that

[Guardian45]

Just start talking. She's probably as nervous as you.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like she just needed some alone time.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

If she needs alone time she tells me before hand like “”hey I kinda just want alone time today just letting you know”” or something like that then she will say I love you and walk away but she won’t n on t give me heads up

[Opinion Owner]

Hmm, that isn't a good sign then.

[Ur1local2bisexual]

And it’s affecting me a lot rn

[Opinion Owner]

I am sorry