Should I pull away from her?

[ovixs90]

So i noticed this collegue at work we haven't spoke before but she always used to say hello and smile to me where others just walk pass you if they dont know you. So i sent her a message and we started chating every day but she is pretty busy so used to replay close to end of work or after work. So i tried to ask her if she can make a tea brake but it was almost end of work and she replayed that there is so much work that she might need to stay after work. Later we chated again and i offered again for her maybe when she be in the office she wants to go for lunch. She thanked for the offer but haven't said nothing maybe or something. Than i tried to offer her to meet after work for coffee or museum , she again thanked me , but said she is not in my city right now for all week after this i wrote maybe next time and we stopped talking. Whst my next moves should be should i just leave her alone and if we meet in the office tham talk or try again to contact her. Whst are your offers? And i dont want to seem needy, but i am interested in her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm that's a tough one dude. It kinda seems like she's not super interested in hanging out outside of work based on her responses. But it's hard to say for sure.

I'd say maybe give her a little space for now. Don't keep constantly asking her out or you could risk coming across as needy like you said. Play it cool.

When you run into her at the office, say hi and have a normal friendly chat. But I wouldn't force any invite for something right away. Let things go back to how they were at first - just smiling and casual small talk.

See how she responds to that. If after a week or so she seems totally cool talking to you as just coworkers again, then maybe it was just bad timing before and you could try asking her out one more time.

But if she seems like she's avoiding you or doesn't want to chat much, then take the hint that she's probably not into you that way. Don't want to make things awkward at work!

Play it cool for now and see how things go. Maybe drop some light compliments if you chat but don't push anything. Hopefully it works out, but better to know sooner if she's not interested so you're not wasting your time, you know? Just my two cents man!

[SotiCoto]

Too late. She already learnt you have bad grammar.

[Anonymous]

You know the saying, “don't shit where you eat?”

[Tharithi]

U must pick her up not ask her u asss