What's the most friends with benefits you've had at a single time?

[KostasKouvalis]

How many do you think is too many?

Were there any jealousy/guilt issues?

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Someone who has a really high sex drive, might feel it's good to have multiple options incase one girl isn't available. Or some people just like to change things up. I don't know if this is wrong.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I've never had any. I was never that cool but even if I was, my mind isn't good at remembering lots of things. Like if I had Janet on Tuesday and Alice on Wednesday, I think there is around 100% chance that I would eventually call "Janet" "Alice" and vice versa, and they would be like, "Who's Alice?" And even if I lied about it, I would feel guilty after and probably want to come clean.

Also women like lots of weird things like flowers. Like maybe Janet likes this sorta Merpharoninanite flower. While the Alice one likes Benzanotainoaquox flower. Then I might get the wrong flower because I don't give a shit about flowers.

I figure guys have to be really into flowers and shit to multitask this way.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

What I liked to do when I was young and wanting to sleep with lots of women is just date one for a week and then we're done. Then I date a new one. This way I don't have to remember any names or flowers or anything like that.

[KostasKouvalis]

Damn. I wasn't expecting you to go THAT deep into it 😂

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Cheers and my bad! This friends with benefits stuff is kind of weird to me. It is a perversion of friendship as I see it. Like imagine I was gay and we were friends and fucking each other. Isn't that sorta weird to be called "friendship"? Same for me though with female friends. If you want to spread your seed as far as possible or simulate it, it doesn't make sense to me to be friends first. A girl doesn't need that much time and attention to sleep with if she will ever entertain the idea of sleeping with us.

[chrissykerdock]

i have one friends with benefits and he keeps me very busy... comes over 4-5 times a week... mostly he gets oral sex because that's what we agreed on a long time ago... i've been seeing him for 3 years now and it never gets tired or boring.

[KostasKouvalis]

You just give him oral sex and that's it? How come?
3 years? So I'm gonna assume you're not in a relationship.

[chrissykerdock]

he's a friends with benefits i don't take birth control and i'm not going to have his baby either... men love pussy but they run when they get you pregnant... which is obnoxious to think the women is supposed to spread her legs and say ok cum inside me and knock me up

[KostasKouvalis]

That is completely reasonable on your part. Does he at least give YOU oral too? Or just doing it to him is enough for you?

[chrissykerdock]

he gives me oral... and if he doesn't do that he has great fingers and gives me a great fingering

[KostasKouvalis]

I see. I think that's a good arrangement. I've known a few girls who had friends with benefits, and didn't do anything beyond oral.

[chrissykerdock]

i think most guys are on the fence about blowjobs and if they find you actually love to give it and swallow they kind of like it too... it's very sexy for me to be on my knees sucking a penis... once you get over being embarassed or feeling like a slut it can be quite nice to experience and i'm able to do this several times a week which isn't bad.

[KostasKouvalis]

I think ANY sexual act can be romantic if you really want it to be. I never particularly cared for blow jobs, but I don't mind getting one😂

[chrissykerdock]

especially if you got a good blowjob i think you'd like them better... he was impressed that i swallowed cum and it showed that i generally enjoyed giving him blowjobs

[KostasKouvalis]

Yes, I agree with that. Especially if she knows how to give one to a penis that isn't cut.
Yeah, some girls genuinely do get turned on from giving them

[chrissykerdock]

i do i like the miniskirts wearing the make up and actually being on my knees to give them

[KostasKouvalis]

That's kind of hot actually. Do you ever touch yourself when you give them?
Have you ever sucked one that was uncut?

[chrissykerdock]

i've sucked penises that were uncut it's really not the problem you think it is... not really because i'm worried to get him off and i'm holding his penis or touching something else on him

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't think it's a problem. American girls do😂

[chrissykerdock]

im an American girl and don't have a problem it helps the 1st cock i sucked regularly was uncut

[KostasKouvalis]

Really?
Those girls are just stupid then

[chrissykerdock]

no it's odd to get a guy with an uncut cock... and it appears ugly at 1st glance but then it's just another cock... maybe you taste more sweat but to a seasoned cocksucker that's like an almost non factor

[KostasKouvalis]

Exactly. I don't know why girls are so cringy about it. If you're a good dick sucker you can make even a phimosis dick cum😂

[chrissykerdock]

exactly and it's really so insignificant sucking an uncut cock... you think some would like it as there's more to lick and play with

[KostasKouvalis]

EXACTLY! I agree 100%

[KostasKouvalis]

If I'm honest, I more like the idea of getting a blow job as foreplay to get me "excited", so we can do other stuff

[alice55]

Never had one but in France those kind of stuff are nearly always exclusive so never multiple friends with benefits at once for safety reasons (avoiding std).

[KostasKouvalis]

In real life it's a lot more complicated, and STDs are always a huge concern. Though at the same time if they were virgins or haven't been sleeping with anyone else, and have good hygiene, then there's nothing to catch.

[Saramodel]

There was a time when I had 15 to 17 different guys and hooked up with 2-3 of them per day

[KostasKouvalis]

Holy shit! How old were you? You must have a really high sex drive!

[Saramodel]

I'm 19

[Saramodel]

PM me

[Anonymous]

All my friends are guys and Just about all of them have benefits. Friends with benefits is different to me than a fuck buddy. We are friends and care for each other. Why wouldn’t we be close physically too?

[KostasKouvalis]

That's really beautiful actually

[Emmamcclallen]

3 friends

[KostasKouvalis]

Did you have any issues

[Emmamcclallen]

No it worked out until i moved

[KostasKouvalis]

Cool

[Emmamcclallen]

Wbu?

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't know honestly. I have a few regulars, new ones are always popping up. But there are only a few that I'm really close with. And I've had others come and go.

[Emmamcclallen]

Oh nice

[KostasKouvalis]

Thanks I guess😂

[KostasKouvalis]

Have you ever been in a relationship?

[Emmamcclallen]

Yes i have

[Emmamcclallen]

My latest ended after two years

[KostasKouvalis]

I see. And how was that compared to the friends with benefits stuff? Did you start doing that AFTER your relationship ended?

[Emmamcclallen]

Yes with other people

[KostasKouvalis]

I see. What made you go that route?

[Emmamcclallen]

I didn’t have a choice because that was before i got an apartment

[KostasKouvalis]

You had friends with benefits because you didn't have your own place?

[Emmamcclallen]

No I had friends with benefits and then when i moved i lost them

[KostasKouvalis]

I got that part. I was curious why you got FWBs in the first place? Like what about it, did you find appealing?

[bananathunder]

just one

[Freyke]

Two.