Hello everyone, so recently I found a message to my boyfriend from Tinder which says: Thank you for your Gold Tinder purchase ( it was a date, price, confirmation code, expiration date)... I still did not say anything and it's been a while. Should I start to talk before I will leave or just should I pack my things and go? Thank you for answers
Well, it does seem like you have made up your mind to leave him. That is a wise decision because it seems as if it was certain he was going to at least put himself out there to see what he could get. I would leave too.
Now, as to whether to talk or not? That is really a personal decision and not right answer. I think that is just going to lead to an argument and nothing constructive will come of it. If it were me, I would just pack my stuff when he was not around and leave, along with leaving a note or something saying you know about the Tinder and that is why you decided to move on.
Talking is not going to solve anything in my opinion. It will either be some argument or him trying to talk his way out of it. If the latter, it will likely be a bunch of lies that just further proves you should leave him. I suppose there would be some closure from it, but honestly not worth it in my opinion. Good luck to you.
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You know you can’t trust him. However, when he asks what you’re doing, I wouldn’t hold back. He needs to live with the consequences of his actions and understand that it’s his fault.
I would ask him what he is looking for on Tinder that he can't find with you.
Then you know what to do.
Ouch... sorry for your loss. That is one shitastic way to find out the true intentions of a partner.
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There is nothing to talk about anymore. He wants to cheat you accept it or you go separate way. Talking will look like "please don't cheat on me" and it will change anything.
In my eyes, you can do whatever you feel in this situation. Honestly, if I was you I wouldn't say anything cause he didn't either and cause u know he's gonna be defensive, lie, and ultimately, waste more time.
Tinder needs to work on their discretion for the guys who cheat...
You're his girlfriend n he buying dates on tinder...
Are you dumb or don't have mind to understand situation?Get out. The only reason to have a premium account is so that you don't miss anyone who likes your profile.
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