What is he doing?

[Anonymous]

Let's just call him C. C and I were once together but it took a while for us to get together due to him not being ready for the relationship, yet we would kiss, hug, say I love you, all of that, but it took a while before we became something like boyfriend and girlfriend. I broke up with him last year because I was going through some things and didn't want to drag him through it. But we started talking at the end of the year last year and started to get TALKING around January. That's That's we started seeing eachother, saying I love you, and even having intercourse. But still, he doesn't want to put a label on what we are, yet he introduces me as his girlfriend. He says he isn't ready for a new relationship after the last girl he was with, but I'm just a bit confused. What is he doing?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like there may be some confusion and mixed signals in your current relationship with C. While he introduces you as his girlfriend and engages in intimate activities with you, he also seems hesitant to commit to a relationship label or make things official.

It may be helpful to have a direct and honest conversation with C about your feelings and expectations, and to ask him to clarify his own intentions and feelings. It is important to prioritize open communication and mutual respect in any relationship, and to make sure that both partners are on the same page.

However, it is also important to be prepared for the possibility that C may not be ready or willing to commit to a relationship at this time, and to be honest with yourself about whether this is something you are willing to accept or whether you need to move on to find a partner who is more aligned with your desires and values.

[Asker]

This has to be my favorite answer. This helps a lot

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you and I’m happy i could help.

[ColHathi]

If his response helped, that's great, but you should know that JasonDaMan has a habit of using ChatGPT to generate a lot of his responses, and I'm pretty certain that his entire response was generated by ChatGPT. Just so you're aware.

[David4358]

maybe he is a bit guarded because you broke up with him for some reason?

[Asker]

But he did the same thing the first time we had gotten together.

[David4358]

who knows, your both young, stop micro analyzing everything. if your together and happy relax and just be happy

[BungusHighFivePizza]

Maybe he doesn't want to lose you.

[Asker]

Maybe. He did say that he didn't want to hurt me and then went on with saying that he didn't want to get drunk at a party and end up doing another girl because that would hurt me.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

That last statement is totally badass but I think one coming from wounded heart. I think he was hurt a lot when he lost you so he is guarding his heart halfway with everything he does and says.

[Asker]

You have a point there. It did hurt me to leave, but if I would have stayed, it would have hurt him more. I was planning on ending it all. I'm perfectly fine now though! I got the help I needed