Have you ever gotten nervous around a particular woman? What do you think were the reasons? Attraction? Feelings for her? Just shyness?

[Anonymous]

[PizzaDaddyo]

Lol because you said it right there.
Because I’m shy already I get nervous when I’m attracted to someone. It could definitely be looks lol they can be hypnotizing. Lol I’m constantly saying the wrong things as well when I talk to the ones I want to attract and I do a great job at making friends. I’ve been on the other end sadly rejecting kind potential lovers I just simply couldn’t follow through with. I personally think I’m good though and have way less to worry about these days bc I know what I want and more willingness my to risk it for the biscuit!!

[Anonymous]

Yes, i got nervous around her because i liked her. she was a girl from work, the HR, around 3 years younger than me. At that point i knew her for 3 months but didn't really talk to her besides document work.

And im pretty sure she knew that i liked her because she asked me on 3 different occasions why i get nervous around her.

and i also think she was interested (not entirely sure) in me too because whilst asking me why i get nervous, she then asked me if i have a girlfriend. Then the next day outside the office she started touching me in places you wouldn't touch someone in a friendly way. I asked my sister and she told me no girl touches someone in places like that without there being a deeper meaning to it.

[Asker]

Do you think that only physical attraction makes a guy nervous for a girl or feelings also play a role in nervousness?

[Opinion Owner]

It can be either one, or it can also be both.

For me personally, it was physical attraction mainly. Then over the time as we worked together she became a familiar face and i started having some feelings.

I wouldn't have had feelings if i didn't see her so frequently for 3 months.

by the way, are you asking this because there is a guy who gets nervous around you?

[Asker]

Oh i got it the attraction turn into feelings when you meet more than once or talk.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. It builds up. It’s like you want to talk to them but can't because of nervousness so it keeps building up.

And again, are you asking this because a guy gets nervous around you? I’m curious.

[Asker]

Yes he get nervous and avoids eye contact?

[Opinion Owner]

If he is anything like me, he probably likes you.
I dont see any other reason for him to be nervous.

How long have you known him? Are you guys friends or just familiar faces?

[Asker]

I met him first time.

[Opinion Owner]

Well if he gets nervous again, you could ask him why he gets nervous.

For me, when the girl i liked asked me that, something about that made me like her even more. I don't know what it is, but it has something to do with her being able to tell that I’m nervous and she is confident enough to ask.

[Asker]

Can we talk? Can u share your username so that i can send u mesg

[virtue2332]

Feelings? You are giving us too much credit. That happens way longer

[Asker]

So no feelings? U get nervous because of just attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry i can't share the username, its why i stayed anonymous in the first place lol. The questions i have asked in the past are really really embarrassing and i decided to be on perma anonymous mode since 2021. But if you have any questions feel free to keep them in this reply.

And by the way, it can be feelings. Getting nervous around someone is kind of a sign of having feelings, dont you think?

[Opinion Owner]

There are women who i thought looked very good but i didn't really get nervous around them. For me to get nervous around a girl, there is usually something more than just physical attraction

[Asker]

Exactly, you get nervous because of feelings.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes. physical attraction + feelings

[Anonymous]

Can't speak for the guys, but I think it's just hard when you like someone specifically to get close to them because you don't know how they'll react.

[gag37627]

Fear of rejection

[bobalife]

Hmm only because I had a crush on her, so yes. It was an emotional connection type of situation though.

[LunaLoveMeKnots]

Yes, and it was fairly odd as im usually completely comfortable with girls in any manner, I don't even know what it was about her, we would meet on these freezing mornings, she would be there, all lip and cheek peircings, tattoos, chain-smoking mulbrough reds, she was cynical but not bitter, never minced words, the first time I took her pants off and saw she had multiple peircings down there as well I told her that it was hot like she didn't know, she looked at me like an idiot and said "they are just peircings.. she said it in the most repulsed way, yeah, she made me nervous

[lightbulb27]

Yes. it's my sub conscious mind relating her to my childhood when I had strong emotional programming.

That's it in a nutshell. Could be my bacteria tuning into her pheremones I guess... I'll let science figure that one out. Hey, if my bacteria like her, then it's good...

[AliSulayman]

She was smoking hot. Was totally interested in me, but she was my boss’s girlfriend!
She kept giving hints and offering “stuff” so I was torn between following my dick and hoping for the best or confront my boss and hope for the best 😂
Eventually he broke up with her, but since I was so stupid not to take her number. She vanished and I still regret it till this day lol.

[Asker]

So it was just a physical attraction for you OR you were having feelings for her?

[AliSulayman]

Just physical attraction of course

[Asker]

So you get nervous around her because of just physical attraction? No feelings at all?

[AliSulayman]

In that particular case yes!
Otherwise I’d get nervous around a woman, if I know it’s impossible to be with her or “in her”. (Married, colleague, neighbor … etc)

[Asker]

Guys only get nervous when they have feelings too not because of only physical attraction.

[AliSulayman]

Of course! But it’s not a must. And mostly it’s not.

[warsevf]

I get incredibly nervous around my crushes, Can't look them in the eye, neither can talk to them properly.

[Asker]

And u ignore them as if they dont exist?

[warsevf]

Yeah kind of, reason why i won't remember their faces accurately

[Asker]

Why dont u approach any of them for serious relationship?

[warsevf]

I did once i got older and braver but she has a boyfriend.

I have crushes at gym, but now its matter of ethnicity and practicality.

[Asker]

You guys take crushes seriously or just as physical attraction?

[warsevf]

I can get physically attracted to many women, but crushes are different.

They usually aren't cutest of the bunch. Its something about them like the way they talk or smile or breathe.

[warsevf]

So, I take it seriously, if i am not a scared cat, i would have been married now

[Asker]

Wish u good luck

[warsevf]

Thank you, but mostly i will just die alone

[Asker]

Dont worry

[warsevf]

I'll try thanks

[TheFlak38]

The married sister of my father's girlfriend who was hitting hard on me in front of other family members (on her side). In the days that followed she was calling my dad telling him that she's crazy for me and how she wants to pick me up in her car. It couldn't get more awkward. I mean I would have no problem to fuck her. She is a fine milf but she could be a little more discreet in front of her family.

[MementoMori777]

Last person I crushed on was a fit blonde girl with blue eyes and I gotta say she did intimidate me, that was when I was a teen tho.

[virtue2332]

For me it's always when I'm attracted to them or something about them eyes for me colored ones. Could be a nice behind because I feel like they know I have a hard time looking away.

[Asker]

So u avoid eye contact when attracted to them or stare at them?

[virtue2332]

I cannot maintain eye contact. It's weird I almost feel naked

[Asker]

Is it just because of physical attraction or intense feelings too?

[virtue2332]

If I don't know anything about her it's always physical. I have also had a new friend that I met that was part of a boot camp i was apart of. We all participated in a 5 k color run and she asked if she could hang out and keep pace with me. We bonded on the run and we just clicked. She was cool we were both all covered in colored chalk. Our boot camp was a high intensity interval training class so you kind of went in and powered through the workout and I didn't hang around to socialize much since I just wanted to get home and shower. So after this color run. Our coach was having a get together at his house so our class could hang out and get to know eachother and pass out awards for goals since it was the half way point in the camp. So she asked me if I was going and I thought nothing of it and said yeah ill see ya there. Got there and when I walked in locked eyes with this stunning women and she smiled and walked over to me and gave me a hug. I didn't even recognize her and was blown away at how put together she was minus the paint and sweats and baggy team shirts we wore. I was literally frozen and this is someone that I had no problem casually joking with on the run. We had great conversation and now I couldn't formulate a few words. I tried to play it off and said something to like I almost didn't even recognize you minus all the colors that was thrown at us. She said you clean up pretty well I'm impressed. I said me look at you I couldn't put two words together when I saw this hot girl come over and give me a hug. I was intimidated for sure.

[OfMiceandMen]

Not really, I have always been calm, cool and collective. I just look at them as potential friend which takes the whole wondering if they like me or not for more than just friends, off the table.

[Anonymous]

I used to. But that's back when I actually thought most women were good people capable of feelings that weren't only selfish. Now i have no reason to be nervous. Because frankly I simply don't care what her opinions of me are anymore. They can and will change with the wind and are not rooted in anything logical or real anyways.

[LiamJHayden]

No, but there have been times I've been caught off guard and temporarily flustered by the actions of a few.

[Gingerbread_GB]

Usually attraction. People get nervous because they want to present the best version of themselve to her.

[FinalFantasyBro]

The third option in the question I have shyness a pretty toxic sort of kind but I am actually breaking my shyness and started to talk with others out of the house which is great.

[SawerBrown]

Yes dhe was beautiful but not vain and I was shy a didn't have a clue she actually liked me.

[Asker]

So what do u when u get nervous around a girl because of attraction?

[SawerBrown]

Find it hard to make conversation.

[Asker]

So avoid looking at her face or staring at her face?

[SawerBrown]

Yes that would be right

[Asker]

I asked, do u avoid looking at her face or do u stare at her?

[Shy_Steve]

Of course i have and its usually just my Shyness, Sometimes it can be Attraction but that does happen that often.

[Asker]

So when u r nervous u avoid eye contact or makes prolong eye contact with girl?

[Shy_Steve]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

Oh my gosh yes. I think it was all of the above. But in a way it was a major thrill.

[Asker]

So what do u when u get nervous around a girl because of attraction?

[Opinion Owner]

I shake a little lol. Do you like making guys nervous? My friend told me she thinks it’s powerful lol. And cute when guys get nervous

[Reorx]

Yes, when younger; the culprit? A mix of unrealistic expectations, investing too much of myself & caring about tbe outcome.

[Byuser]

İLEYes, when I went to a client's house, he had just come out of the bathroom and when I walked in, the door was locked, he was wearing a thin pink dress and was not wearing underwear.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Fear of false allegations. Some bitches just have that vibe

[Anonymous]

I have developed breast but I am very much attractive towards woman for sex.

due to bigger breast I feel low sometimes not be topless even at home since teenage

[Anonymous]

Yes and i dont know why

[Anonymous]

a school crush