Guys have you ever get nervous around girls? what were the reasons and can you share your experience?

[Anonymous]

[Lionman95]

Yes sure, there are many reasons all of them involve that I like a woman either in terms of being around her or I crush on her. For me the situation was that I didn´t want to mess it up and I didn´t know how to get to know her.
So thinking about how to talk to a woman still makes me nervous.

[Asker]

if you know a girl likes you but you dont like her still you will get nervous around her?

[Lionman95]

Yes because I get nervous the moment I know a woman likes me because I have problem figuring out if a woman likes me or not. That´s oftentimes my main problem.

[Asker]

and you dont like her back

[Lionman95]

How do you know that? Maybe I´m just not sure if I like her and send her therefore mixed signals

[Zolly99999]

When i was younger i did all the time around attractive women... Because I'm not good looking I was nervous they would be appalled by me... Lol boy was i wrong.. I have no issues now. . maturity and life experiences go a long way..

[Asker]

so boy mostly got nervous around attractive girl and it's because he feels insecure around her?

[Zolly99999]

For me yes...

[Asker]

so you get nervous around every pretty attractive girl or just the one you have feelings for too?

[Zolly99999]

I use too ( I don't anymore) around all women i found attractive. Once I got self confidence i realized I had nothing to be nervous about. . they are human beings just like me..

[Asker]

great 🙂

[UniquelyBasic]

I once got an erection in front of my crush. It was very awkward, not sure if she actually saw it though

[Asker]

so it's mostly when you are around your crush?

[UniquelyBasic]

This was in middle school

[Asker]

so whenever you get nervous around a girl what were the reasons?

[UniquelyBasic]

Im really good at hiding my nervousness around people in general so its not a problem for me. Im not a smooth sweet talker with the ladies but I get by alright.

[Asker]

but why? its because of attraction or feelings?

[UniquelyBasic]

It can be both since you're worried of making a fool of yourself you in turn make a fool of yourself.

[Asker]

and when you try to hide feelingsvyou start looking down and avoid eye contact.

[UniquelyBasic]

Yes, eye contact is a huge way to connect with someone so avoiding eye contact prevents that.

[Asker]

what do you think when a guy is nervous and at the same time avoid eye contact does it means he is afraid of catching feelings for her?

[UniquelyBasic]

Well he already finds her somewhat attractive, thats why he feels nervous, not the other way around.

[Asker]

thanks 🙂

[UniquelyBasic]

😎😎

[FilmGuy93]

Not really, but it used to happen when I got the distinct vibe the woman didn't like me.

[Anonymous]

Yes. My mind goes blank and I look like a fool. I'm also terrible at speaking to a group. I assume it's social anxiety.

[Asker]

around some girl or every girl?

[Opinion Owner]

Most girls unless we know each other reasonably well. In school I would get comfortable speaking with girls sitting near me in class after a few months.

[Anonymous]

No. When I was younger yeah. Now anymore I'm usually just counting the lies she's telling me. 🤣

[Asker]

so its usually because you are attracted to them you feel nervous?

[Opinion Owner]

Well yeah I'd say that's natural. Nobody likes to be rejected. But anymore I just accept rejection. And when a woman rejects me I just say that's on her not me. I think more people NEED to take this attitude. We take rejection personal. Because it's a really personal thing. But most people don't even really get to know someone before rejecting them most of the time. So people really shouldn't take it personal. Because they're not really rejecting you. Rather they're just rejecting their perception of you. Which most the time is completely inaccurate.

[MannMitAntworten]

Nope. Women are people too…