How should I handle my boyfriend playing games and not wanting to sleep with me?

[Anonymous]

I haven't slept with my boyfriend in 2 weeks and I come over today to stay the night. He's on the couch watching his favorite show and playing clash of clans on his phone. I started the shower and said hey babe let's go take a hot shower together and he said yeah we can do that and 45 minutes have passed and I asked again he said yeah we can do that again he's still in his phone and I'm waiting on the bed he's still playing that game, I feel really hurt that he would rather play that game instead of have sex with me or take a shower with me I don't know what to do or what to say to him.

[MementoMori777]

Don't y'all got all night to have sex tho, I'm sure you'll get it, he never said when lol

And tell homie to hop of clash of clans, that shit dead, tell him to get on call of dragons 🤣

[Asker]

I didn't have all night because I had to go to work today.

[MementoMori777]

Oof, then nevermind

[Asker]

I asked him straight out did he want to sleep with me and he was still all up in his phone and took a while to answer me so I said sorry for asking and he said we can it's up to you then went straight back in his phone im sitting here in his house crying and he's just in his car on his phone and has been out there for a hour

[MementoMori777]

So why don't you tell him "let's do it right now" there's no way to go around that so he either says yes or no, if it happens then there you go, if not then I don't know what to tell you, masturbate I guess 🤷🏽

[ZombieInLove]

How many times you are together? Maybe he is bored your relationship. You should find how ton get your relationship more entertaining or interesting.

[Asker]

I see him 1 or 2 times a week. I talked to him about it and he said that he though I was on my period and that he doesn't like period sex. I told him it hurt me but next time we will be better at communicating. It was my fault for not communicating clearly that sex was what I wanted but also his fault for assuming I was on my period and not expressing that he doesn't like period sex.

[Asker]

He said he wanted to have sex with me tonight but I can't shake that feeling of rejection and now it feels like he's just wanting to just to appease me.

[ZombieInLove]

You can't say you re in reletionship for 2 weeks. You are more like 2 strangers who have sex. You should not wait something from. him.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like he is taking your relationship for granted and maybe over it.

[Anonymous]

Have a secret guy who satisfy your hole