Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years now, and we just started staying under the same roof. I love him dearly but one of the main things that we argue over are his video games, and a lot of the time it's because he keeps me up all night with them. I have a history of bad sleeping patterns thats been going on for a couple of years now. Anxiety and insomnia is something that messes up my sleep and he knows all of this! That is why I don't understand why he won't try to make a way to let me sleep in peace. He plays on xbox live and he talks to other people. His voice has a lot of bass in it, so his laughing and talking keeps me up because he is loud. We just finished arguing because I kept asking him to be quiet with his games. He kept telling me that he didn't want me to go downstairs and sleep *I still lose sleep when i'm downstairs because he is very loud*** but he wasn't showing me. He really didn't want to stop talking to his xbox friends and even told one of them that I "claimed that I wasn't getting any sleep" because they herd me yelling at him and he was telling them that I was yelling at him just because he was on that game. So I told him to tell the person the real reason. Another thing that irks me is that he doesn't believe things that I say. Like I don't think that he believed me when I said that he was keeping me up. I might as well be a liar cuz he treats me like one. I'm seriously considering taking him to his mother's house to stay for a while because all I want is to sleep and he doesn't seem to get it.
My boyfriend keeps me up all night with his video games and I don't know what to do?
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