Not planning anything in the future?

[Anonymous]

Been with my girlfriend for a year. Every time I try to plan a trip for us in the future she turns it down. They are things we both enjoy doing. The latest being my plus one for awedding a year from now. I'm staring to be concerned about our relationship.

[Anonymous]

It's understandable to feel concerned if your girlfriend isn't interested in making plans for the future with you, especially if these plans involve activities that you both enjoy. While it's important to respect your girlfriend's wishes and not pressure her into doing anything she's not comfortable with, it's also important to have open and honest communication about your concerns.

You could try having a conversation with her about why she's hesitant to make plans for the future. Maybe she's worried about committing to something too far in advance, or perhaps there are other factors that she hasn't shared with you yet. By having an open and non-judgmental conversation, you may be able to better understand her perspective and come up with a solution together.

It's also possible that your girlfriend simply isn't interested in making long-term plans with you, which could be a sign that she's not as invested in the relationship as you are. If this is the case, it's important to have a frank conversation about your expectations for the relationship and whether you're both on the same page.

It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with in the relationship and whether you're willing to continue without making plans for the future. However, it's important to communicate your concerns and expectations to your girlfriend so that you can work together to find a solution that works for both of you.