If you cannot live without someone and it is difficult to live with him. So how do you come out of such a situation?

[Anonymous]

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I mean you can't live without them but at the same time you can't live with because of fights and arguments and trust issues. You feel strange kind of pull towards them. You feel empty without their presence.

[Anonymous]

It can be a very difficult situation to be in when you feel like you cannot live without someone, but it is also difficult to live with them. Here are some steps you can take to help you come out of this situation:

1. Take some time for self-reflection: Think about why you feel like you cannot live without this person and why it is difficult to live with them. Are there underlying issues or patterns that need to be addressed? What are your needs and priorities in a relationship?

2. Communicate openly and honestly: Talk to the person about your feelings and concerns, and listen to their perspective as well. Be honest about what you need in the relationship, but also be willing to compromise and work together to find solutions.

3. Seek professional help: Consider seeing a therapist or counselor who can help you work through your feelings and develop healthy coping strategies. They can also help you to identify any underlying issues that may be contributing to the difficulties in your relationship.

4. Consider taking a break: If the situation is particularly difficult or toxic, it may be helpful to take some time apart from the person to gain perspective and focus on your own well-being.

5. Make a decision that is best for you: Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what is best for you in the situation. It's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and to make choices that are in your own best interest, even if it's difficult in the short-term.

[EricSummer]

You make a fair attempt at living with him and try to work things out.

If that does not work out you break up and learn to live without the other person. It is objectively not true that you cannot live without them. Get all the help you need to make it.

I hope it is not related to your own situation as you are getting married already...

[caring__1]

Work on your self-esteem. If you feel you can't live without someone, that's generally a statement of low self-esteem. You may feel your society forces you to be with someone you don't like, but it's your choice to stay in a society that feels entitled to control women. It's like people who continue holding onto toxic families, believing they have no choice. They're unlikely to change for you, so the only way to thrive as an individual is to remove yourself from the situation and create a functional situation. Always look for opportunities rather than obstacles. It's easy to blame others for our lack of action.

[Asker]

Exactly

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

All I can say is hang in there. I cannot express the authentic feelings a girl may feel when leaving her house after the marriage. I can tell from your tone that you are feeling homesick already.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I think your friends may be the golden links. You don't live with them, while at the same time you are not unfamiliar with them. Just what everybody needs, I guess.

[SawerBrown]

You knave him and find a better guy.

[SawerBrown]

He's not for you andcwill abuse you and make you feel like it's your fault tobkeepnyou with him it's a classic abuse scenario.. leave him.

[Asker]

I am trying

[shades777]

Sounds like your stuck