I want to go to a desert, my friend wants us to go clubbing, how do we choose so both of us are happy?

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We have 5 days holidays soon, I really want to go to a desert, ride a horse, stay in a luxurious yurta and just get in touch with myself and a nature. It’s a more expensive trip, but worthy for me.

My friend who’s staying with me till she finds herself apartment, wants us to go clubbing again. We used to go clubbing after my break up, but after a while I realized that’s not my style and not a place for me. I won’t meet the type of people I like there. I had great fun and dancing and flirting helped me overcome my break up, but I am no longer interested.

She, however, wants us to stay in Shanghai and go clubbing, that’s much cheaper, of course.

I just wonder, why she couldn’t get bored of clubbing, I felt like both of us had enough and she would also get interested in something else.

So, I wonder what do we do so that both of us are happy and together. I think she also can’t afford the desert trip. So if we go, I’ll have to help her. But if we stay she’s going to beg me to go clubbing together.

I want to go to a desert, my friend wants us to go clubbing, how do we choose so both of us are happy?
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