Is there ever a time where you don’t have be respectful when someone says something?

[BarryLiverstone]

I’m confused because she tells me:

“You dont have to respect my decision it's never what I mean anyways”

Updates

+1 y

Thanks for the help. It was too much back and forth so I just asked her not to talk to me again

[Anonymous]

Respect is an important value in communication and relationships, but it's also important to recognize that respect is a two-way street and should be earned through mutual understanding and consideration.

In this specific situation, it's possible that the person is expressing that they feel like you're not truly understanding or acknowledging their decisions, and that your attempts to be respectful may come across as insincere or dismissive.

It's important to communicate openly and honestly with the person about your intentions and to try to understand their perspective. However, it's also important to set boundaries and to prioritize your own well-being and values.

If the person is behaving in a way that is disrespectful or harmful to you, it's okay to communicate your boundaries and to limit or end the relationship if necessary. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and to surround yourself with people who respect and support you.

[NathanDavis]

oh... that sounds tricky

better play it safe

here... have some wine

[hiyamotherfers]

sure. I mean if someone says something thats not helpful I will use sarcasm

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh ya I also can be sarcastic when it’s justified. In this case she said :

“Fine. I dont want to talk to you anymore anyways.”

But now says she doesn’t mean it. So see my confusion?

[hiyamotherfers]

yeah

[hiyamotherfers]

thats weird I dunno but keep me updated

[linka_pat307]

Someone earns respect and if anyone seems not be respected then.. No need to

[Anonymous]

I agree with you

[BarryLiverstone]

It’s confusing to you?