Have you ever been in a 'rushed relationship' and why was that the case if you're willing?

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D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I clicked "no" but now that I'm thinking about it I should've clicked "yes." I've had those first dates where the chick is trying to plan our wedding out already. I think I just subconsciously get the fuck out of there ASAP. I mean... seriously... who the fuck wants to think about that shit during the "getting to know you" phase? A fucking psycho in my opinion. Allow me to go in-depth on that.

Girl starts talking to me... first question is "So, what do you do?" I immediately know, she is making a decision to spread her legs for me or not based off what I can do for her. I already know she's going to try and tie me into commitment and make it legal so she can at least strip me of half of it.

So I lie. I lie lie lie and then lie some more. I'm ultra-rich and have millions in the bank. I'm more than willing to hand it over to the right woman. I think you're the right woman. She spreads her legs and then I bounce out. I ghost her and I laugh. I post pictures about it to social media and then laugh with my friends. Then I laugh some more.

There is no way in hell I'd allow her to get close to me and end up taking me for all I'm worth... I will let her suck my dick though. 😎

MementoMori777 · Accepted Answer

Yea it lasted two weeks, I have noticed she manipulate me into it tho, I was gonna wait until I met up with her in person but she got moody and I guess took it as a rejection, I've talked to her for like 2 months and dated her for like 2 weeks, I had no idea what was going on at that point 😂

Tina19 · Accepted Answer

I was impulse by nature in past so yes i liked it when they wabt to rush into relationship but now i am different relationships bonds take time to grow so i don't like to rush anymore

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

No, I have dated rushers but it never got past dating.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

If a guy rushes things he gets thrown out.

xolaurenxx · Answer

Yeah. I ended up getting pregnant after 1 and a half months of knowing him and I just knew I couldn’t get rid of it so I ended up keeping it and the relationship got pretty rushed as we started to get to know each other more after I was pregnant. I do think if I didn’t get pregnant that we wouldn’t have even made it to relationship stage or deep into seeing each other a lot as we actually weren’t as compatible as compared to my ex’s. He’s very laid back and so am I but I like a lot of effort which he dosent give. But yeah that’s why the relationship was rushed

TruthBringer · Answer

Sadly, yes. In the past. At the time, I didn't know better and just started a relationship when we were hitting it off well. Should have got to know her better because I didn't know she had BPD with comorbidities of NPD + depression. Yeah... dealing with that was no fun...

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah, the first time I got married we only knew each other about a year and she already had two kids and it always seem like everything was going so fast but we lasted almost 17 years and have three daughters from it

Anonymous · Answer

No. In fact I believe my unwillingness to rush has cost me many relationships. Which is what needed to happen apparently. But it still disappoints me.

TheMadLad · Answer

She wanted an ego boost in a rush.

Have you ever been in a 'rushed relationship' and why was that the case if you're willing?

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