What is the key to keeping the spark in a relationship or marriage?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Anything in life that you want you have to work for it in a relationship you have to make it new and fresh everyday exciting you have to make it happy you have to do things for that person to show them that you love them you don't have to tell them with your voice everyday but if you show them in certain different ways I think that's kind of cool at least that's what I like to do

Try to never put yourself in a position that it's going to make her think something or make him think something that's not true

You have to know how to communicate because if you don't then somebody might take something wrong if you yell and scream it's not going to get you anywhere we all know wrong from right and if you put yourself in one of those wrong positions you have to own up to it you know no matter what it might be but it's not a bad thing to say hey I was wrong I apologize you know we're not always right there are circumstances that happened might look like something that is totally the opposite and you have to be able to stand up and say hey no no wait a minute this is not what happened this is what happened and if you lie the very first time that you lie it's downhill from there because then you're going to keep lying there's no reason to lie no matter what if you did something that's wrong own up to it but don't lie because that just makes it 10 times worse and now you're a liar and can't be trusted

The other thing for me is always stay in shape because in the bedroom it's all about her and you have to keep her happy and you have to be in shape to do that otherwise you're going to be like the two minute guys or the guys that don't do anything anymore they watch porn and that's it you have to be in shape you have to be able to please her more than once and twice or three times a week

Billlewis · Accepted Answer

Make him jealous once in a while. Tell him that a guy you work with, or who works nearby, is flirting with you constantly, and that you know he wants to fuck you really bad. You might be surprised by your husband's reaction. If he doesn't get upset when you bring up the subject the first time, then start talking about it again when you're having sex with your husband. Don't be surprised if he gets super excited and loses control of his dick -- and explodes inside you like he never has before.

Screenwriter · Accepted Answer

You've got to put in effort. Mix it up. Do things together. Do them apart. Travel. Go out. Make time for each other. Make time for the boring chores to keep your household running. Plan your lives, your finances. Support each other in your work/personal/passion endeavors.

Laugh. laugh a lot!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Travel together.
Explore different places, resturants.
Celebrate little moments. Like party because you got or he got promotion etc etc.
Dance together.
Watch movies together. Cook meal together.
Engage in home work activities together.

Anonymous · Answer

Good communication, being unselfish and putting your partner's needs before your own.

Each partner has different needs, and it seems many people see the needs of their partner through the lens of their own needs, which leads to trouble.

Men don't always do a great job of understanding and satisfying a woman's emotional needs, and women don't always do a great job of understanding a man's sexual needs (which by the way are key to his emotional health), because we often think about others' needs in the context of our own.

It all comes down to truly understanding what your partner needs to be happy and satisfied, and caring enough about their happiness to do what it takes. And of course that has to be a two ways street.

Nikki1989 · Answer

We are still going out on romantic dates, just like we did over 6 years ago. We probably have more spark now than we did all those years ago. The thing is if you truly love each other you don't have to find that spark, it is always there.

glennos89 · Answer

Try new things together or take some time off without eachother being there for a couple of days/weeks. Being together every day isn't always helping to make the relationship better. Distance can recandle the flame but if it doesn't might be the end of a era

VikingWarLord · Answer

For most of humanity, they are incapable of being with ONE PERSON for a lifetime (the numbers don't lie).

But... if you insist on jumping into that Lion's Den, then the best way is to NOT MOVE IN TOGETHER.

the moving in part ruins every gawdam thing

richardcory · Answer

Have fun. Don't let life turn into an endless set of chores. Its all to easy for "home" life to feel like work, and all fun to seem to be with people other than your partner

asphaltrhymes · Answer

Having picked the right partner from day 1, but maybe I have high expectations 😬

Ben487 · Answer

staying pretty and not giving up on your fitness

mommymommymommy · Answer

Going on dates, keeping things new, and picking your battles

najekim · Answer

Being adventurous and variety.

OddBeMe · Answer

Being ok with no spark sometimes.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Commitment

Anonymous · Answer

fireworks

Anonymous · Answer

Oral sex?

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