How to keep a relationship interesting/keep spark alive?

[Anonymous]

The relationship I’m in right now is amazing and I want to hold on for this guy as long as I possibly can. In my past relationships an element of complacency has crept in after a number of months leaving as both kind of unfulfilled. Of course the honeymoon stage doesn’t last for ever so a year into your relationship isn’t going to be the same as the first few months but what things can you do to help keep the spark and excitement alive? Because I’m really dedicated to making it work with this guy and he feels the same way!

[hahahmm]

Uh, you both need to talk about your long term relationship goals and see if you're on the same page or not. Don't leave things to guessing and maybe. If you both really want to take the relationship further then that should be official. Otherwise you are just spinning your wheels and delaying how long it will take to find a better match.

That said... don't listen to feminists or lazy fat women who say they only get dressed up and try to look good if they have somewhere to go.

[FictionalCharacter]

Then stop dating feminists and fat women 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[hahahmm]

@FictionalCharacter I don't. I just see them spouting BS online.

[The_Maphio]

Share interests, talk, do something together, keep sex interesting, don't look for the reason of every single fault of yours in him.

[FictionalCharacter]

You can try all you want of trying to please a guy. But they don’t like clingy girls and over pleasers. So no matter what you try, the guy will get tired of you and leave you.

[alleon]

How long have you been dating? You’re worried about this already?

[Anonymous]

In my opinion, if the relationship is good and right, you don't have to worry about this because it just comes naturally. You don't have to "keep the spark" because you never loose it. Like you say, the longer you're together obviously it's not going to be like it is when you first met, but that's not necessarily "bad" and is normal. Love is what's important more than "spark". I never understand people that "get bored" in relationships. That just tells me they weren't right for each other.