How do you keep your relationship fun and fresh?
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First would be to love, respect and trust each other.
But then there are things like taking care of each other sexually; having good conversations; sharing some interests and supporting each other's hobbies and interests; doing little things all the time to show how much you care; and doing fun things together.
My wife and I have even attended couples counseling. Not because we were having relationship trouble, but to learn more about ourselves and each other, to gain better communication skills, and to learn about how to keep relationships fresh. Those sessions were really enlightening and helpful. They strengthened our relationship.
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First, it's not always fun and fresh. Not if it's the long one. You will have his and downs. Times of plenty, and times of empty. Don't stray for some quick fun. Every down you make it through makes the next up that much better. Ups and downs, and how you deal with them makes a relationship...
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Do things you both enjoy, don't give into the rut and stop spoiling and surprising each other, have separate hobbies so that you have a life outside of the relationship. But frankly, maybe the whole notion is wrong, it can not possibly always stay "fun and fresh", it just isn't fresh but it doesn't have to be. I think relationships and love develop and change over time and it does not mean bad change, just change, become more mature and morph into something more serious. It's the mindset of always craving something new like a little kid that has to change.
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Constantly remember what it is that first sparked the love intrest that brought you together. Find new activities/hobbies/goals that you two can do together to constantly build your bond with one another. Don't forget about the little things - may it be making a meal for one another, sending a naughty text in the middle of the day, planning a spontaneous trip, going for a couples massage to unwind. Constantly building one another up as you face day to day challenges that you face alone/together to build yourselves up as individuals.
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Fun and Fresh every time we Kiss and Make up after a Fight... We learn to Grow, Become more of One, hun... And with Being together, Learn more of one another to Become Closer. It's s a New Day every Day. xx
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Romantic is the king of it, little surprises, nice words, being care with the other part.
I had an ex and everything was OK, until she asked me not being so romantic and blamed for it, after she blamed me for not being so much.
Never kill the fire, it's my advice. -
Keep doing what brought you together. Celebrate every anniversary like the first one and find ways to challenge/grow together.
Take time and be together when you can but also have some small hobbies so you can have small amounts of alone time. Unless you enjoy doing those hobbies together then do more of that lmao -
Surprise your wife with something small everyday. It could be a dance after work while your are still dirty, to hold her, a flower for breakfast, a little note before you leave, make love first thing before you go to work, give her a bible bath, so many things
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I like to hide the bodies in different locations to spice things up.
If I want her really frisky, I'll rent a wood chipper and some hungry pigs to give her a real challenge
Oh wait, um... Sometimes we go out to the movies. -
Be friends.. U know how both guys and girls can have THAT annoying best friend who they spend time with.. Even when they have a fight with their partner... Become THAT friend. and it will always be fresh
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Go out and be adventurous together
Get him/her gifts for no reason
Indulge in a common interest - this is why i personally prefer dating someone who has the same hobby. - 1.7K opinions shared on Relationships topic.
You keep courting, keep going on dates, make the decision to keep doing new things together that neither of you have done.
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We try new things. Cooking challenge, hanging out with our friends to create a playful environment, playing baord games, outdoor activity. Introducing new things to keep it alive. And they help!
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Dedicate one night each week for you both to go out somewhere. Planning holidays as something to look forward to.
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Just do you boo, it’s fun when y’all do whatever it is y’all both enjoy together, wether it be chilling at home or going out everyone is different
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Plan one night a week as your date night. Never end the spark that brought you together.
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Telling lies haha I'm just joking, by teasing each other
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Mutually satisfying intimacy and spontaneity for forgetting daily routine sometimes.
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We are big gamers so we just always play Apex or something else together.
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Hide firecrackers in random objects around the house that explode when moved.
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The more you talk openly to each other the more you keep your relationship funny and fresh
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You keep it fresh by constantly expressing your love, inventing new ways of intimacy. Random moments of sexual pleasure with each other. Always make sure you listen to each other, support each other, and relieve each other when life gets tough.
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I am thinking have more silly sex?😂🙈or go nude fishing and or nude video gaming.💗💞
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I'm single currently. But when i had a girlfriend i would try romance, fun games, communicating, surprising her at work.
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