How do you keep your relationship fun and fresh?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

First would be to love, respect and trust each other.

But then there are things like taking care of each other sexually; having good conversations; sharing some interests and supporting each other's hobbies and interests; doing little things all the time to show how much you care; and doing fun things together.

My wife and I have even attended couples counseling. Not because we were having relationship trouble, but to learn more about ourselves and each other, to gain better communication skills, and to learn about how to keep relationships fresh. Those sessions were really enlightening and helpful. They strengthened our relationship.

iamjersey · Accepted Answer

First, it's not always fun and fresh. Not if it's the long one. You will have his and downs. Times of plenty, and times of empty. Don't stray for some quick fun. Every down you make it through makes the next up that much better. Ups and downs, and how you deal with them makes a relationship...

morimeme1 · Accepted Answer

Do things you both enjoy, don't give into the rut and stop spoiling and surprising each other, have separate hobbies so that you have a life outside of the relationship. But frankly, maybe the whole notion is wrong, it can not possibly always stay "fun and fresh", it just isn't fresh but it doesn't have to be. I think relationships and love develop and change over time and it does not mean bad change, just change, become more mature and morph into something more serious. It's the mindset of always craving something new like a little kid that has to change.

aicarg · Accepted Answer

Constantly remember what it is that first sparked the love intrest that brought you together. Find new activities/hobbies/goals that you two can do together to constantly build your bond with one another. Don't forget about the little things - may it be making a meal for one another, sending a naughty text in the middle of the day, planning a spontaneous trip, going for a couples massage to unwind. Constantly building one another up as you face day to day challenges that you face alone/together to build yourselves up as individuals.

Paris13 · Answer

Fun and Fresh every time we Kiss and Make up after a Fight... We learn to Grow, Become more of One, hun... And with Being together, Learn more of one another to Become Closer. It's s a New Day every Day. xx

lernulo · Answer

Romantic is the king of it, little surprises, nice words, being care with the other part.
I had an ex and everything was OK, until she asked me not being so romantic and blamed for it, after she blamed me for not being so much.
Never kill the fire, it's my advice.

Corerue · Answer

Keep doing what brought you together. Celebrate every anniversary like the first one and find ways to challenge/grow together.

Take time and be together when you can but also have some small hobbies so you can have small amounts of alone time. Unless you enjoy doing those hobbies together then do more of that lmao

Batmanjs · Answer

Surprise your wife with something small everyday. It could be a dance after work while your are still dirty, to hold her, a flower for breakfast, a little note before you leave, make love first thing before you go to work, give her a bible bath, so many things

LesterJester · Answer

I like to hide the bodies in different locations to spice things up.

If I want her really frisky, I'll rent a wood chipper and some hungry pigs to give her a real challenge

Oh wait, um... Sometimes we go out to the movies.

onomatophobia · Answer

Be friends.. U know how both guys and girls can have THAT annoying best friend who they spend time with.. Even when they have a fight with their partner... Become THAT friend. and it will always be fresh

dragonfruitA · Answer

Go out and be adventurous together Get him/her gifts for no reason Indulge in a common interest - this is why i personally prefer dating someone who has the same hobby.

Miristheiss · Answer

You keep courting, keep going on dates, make the decision to keep doing new things together that neither of you have done.

This_is_my_username · Answer

We try new things. Cooking challenge, hanging out with our friends to create a playful environment, playing baord games, outdoor activity. Introducing new things to keep it alive. And they help!

AngelAimée · Answer

Dedicate one night each week for you both to go out somewhere. Planning holidays as something to look forward to.

rockhaha · Answer

Just do you boo, it’s fun when y’all do whatever it is y’all both enjoy together, wether it be chilling at home or going out everyone is different

nrhythmic · Answer

Plan one night a week as your date night. Never end the spark that brought you together.

luna09 · Answer

Telling lies haha I'm just joking, by teasing each other

LoU_Hades · Answer

Mutually satisfying intimacy and spontaneity for forgetting daily routine sometimes.

4eyes2mouths · Answer

We are big gamers so we just always play Apex or something else together.

SentientBrick · Answer

Hide firecrackers in random objects around the house that explode when moved.

snasirmehdi · Answer

The more you talk openly to each other the more you keep your relationship funny and fresh

IrishHeat · Answer

You keep it fresh by constantly expressing your love, inventing new ways of intimacy. Random moments of sexual pleasure with each other. Always make sure you listen to each other, support each other, and relieve each other when life gets tough.

skyboy64 · Answer

I am thinking have more silly sex?😂🙈or go nude fishing and or nude video gaming.💗💞

COMMODOREII · Answer

I'm single currently. But when i had a girlfriend i would try romance, fun games, communicating, surprising her at work.

Burtonfan · Answer

Do fun and fresh stuff. Simple really. Dont settle into stale routines.

Jerre · Answer

Doing different things, going to different places, having sex different ways

scooogy · Answer

Whenever I'd feel like it'd need a boost, I'd surprise her in some way.

LuWe22 · Answer

Vacations, activities, lots of sex, going out. Just have fun together

Dean269 · Answer

I flirt wid regularly so she sees me still tryng everyday to be her boyfriend

DanOh2018 · Answer

Fun polyamorous side relationships. An ever growing selection of sex toys. Dirty jokes. Etc.

ShunJie · Answer

We make friendly pranks on each other.

KingSyer · Answer

I'm random so it's easy

hahahmm · Answer

Getting her a personal trainer.

Secret6620 · Answer

Never stop dating. 🖤

diamondz777ariesgirl · Answer

Be spontaneous at all times.

jwr199 · Answer

When you find out let me know please😅

MannMitAntworten · Answer

By starting a new one...

GloriaMc · Answer

I play my mans games Lol 😂😜

rosscore728 · Answer

Threesomes and sex in busy parking lots

Thatsamazing · Answer

Have sex with other people.

sindicated · Answer

I keep it in the fridge with tupperware.

Illusionist69 · Answer

Read meme and share with others 😂😂

Nahid1707 · Answer

It depends on the two people but you can do that

Stavroula00 · Answer

We use old Halloween customs , Roleplay.

Slickdizz1 · Answer

Outdoor sex. Public nudity.

RawIronhide · Answer

Peanut butter

unor2q · Answer

Being more like friends than just a couple

anas22 · Answer

By using air fresh 😂

Davidnotsure · Answer

Mix things up keep her interested

nicholas7643 · Answer

make love all the time

tripptt9 · Answer

put things in his butt

ginger_supremacist · Answer

BDSM

Anonymous · Answer

Try doing some new stuff /work/hobby together

jjunderscore0 · Answer

Spice it up sexually

BIGGESTD39 · Answer

Febreze

Anonymous · Answer

Enthusiastic sex

i7Ahmed · Answer

Get 2 dogs 🐶🐶

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